Trouble in Paradise
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Ahem. Infidelity post on RE.

Re: Ahem. Infidelity post on RE.

  • This is my response to that post: Hmm followed by Indifferent

    Seriously - I can't even comment on it.

  • That has to be a troll.  Has to be.

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • There's a nice future MIL post over there too.
    I agree with everything that muddled said. You should listen to her. -ESDReturns
  • Surprisingly, the infidelity post has disappeared.
  • imageMuddled:
    There's a nice future MIL post over there too.

    Good catch.

  • You mean this sweet little morsel?

     

     

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    necolesing...
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    necolesing2011 is online. Last active: 11-04-2011, 2:35 PMNewbie

    Infidelity

    My husband and I have been married for 6 weeks now. We have been together for almost 9 years and we have a 13 month old child together. We have definitely had some tough times. I cheated on him several times and we would eventually make up and get back together. Although I knew he was capable of cheating on me I never expected it. About 2 weeks before our wedding a girl sent me a message on facebook and told me about the relationship that she had with him. I was so heart broken and overwhelmed. I know exactly how he felt when he found out about my infidelities. We had counseling before marriage and the pastor told me that it was going to take time to rebuild that trust. My husband and I talked and he promised to never cheat again. I guess it hurts so bad because I never expected this from him and the cheating took place after I had our child. When I got pregnant it completely changed me. I couldn't think about another man. I constantly think about what I did wrong and since I don't know the full extent of their relationship I can't stop thinking about how serious it really was. I forgive him for cheating but it is taking a toll on me mentally. Does anyone have any advice to help me cope with moving past this?

     

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  • And, just in case:

     

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    blmccune32
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    blmccune32 is not online. Last active: 11-04-2011, 2:25 PMNewbie

    Future Mother in Law Issues

    Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years and living together for 2 of those years. He still hasn't popped the question and I think his mom has something to do with it. She is a control freak and always puts her opinions in about everything from how I cook to where he works at. She is a good cook and always makes him food. Yes, it's nice sometimes but I can never attempt to be a good one when she makes food all the time and half the time it is food that she knows I don't like. When we go on vacations, she comes over and does her laundry at our house with the house key that she took from our house. I left the spare hanging up and she grabbed it at one time or another. She didn't like that he moved out and in with me and I think she holds that against me. His 14 yr old sister is the same way and she makes comments about him leaving her and what not. I just want to know if there is a way to make them accept the fact that he has moved out for good.

     

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  • Annnd that MIL post is gone too.
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