Trouble in Paradise
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Touch the naked?
I'm dying here, I really am.
Or I'm wired wrong. Or maybe I've been married too long that I need more than just some nakedness before I want to bone.
I don't know. That whole exchange is weird. Kuus, are you saying it's all sexy all the time? Or that you should be so highly attracted to your spouse at all times that you're ready to drop trou once he presents the boner?
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Re: Touch the naked?
Thank you for this I was feeling profoundly broken.
I guess I just don't see my naked husband as purely a sex object.
Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
Does pregnancy earn her a temporary pass?
You are so wonderful.
Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
No. There are no passes.
I'll pretend you meant this sincerely. I'm not complicated, at least. Simple is good, yeah?
I totally mean this sincerely. Like I'm beaming smiley just thinking about how wonderful you are, I'm not kidding. Your husband is a lucky man.
Anyway, Trista's turned to God so I guess it's all good in the hood now. He doesn't yell at her about getting therapy, or some such bullshitit.
Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
I like to touch (and be touched by) H, but I don't know that it is related to his nakedness at all. I like the warmth of him. I like the skin to skin contact. I like being close to him. I would not say that I get all excited every time he takes off his clothes or walks around in the nude. I think it's more about the way he makes me feel- the comfort and security of it- than straight physical attraction.
Then again, if you knocked on our door on any given day, we would be scrambling to make ourselves decent before we answered it. Nudity is just not associated with sex alone.
also, "present the boner" is making me giggle uncontrollably
I'm so saying this the next time DH and I touch nakeds with each other.
Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
Sorry, HS. I tried.
I was wondering when binzy would show up for this thread.
This is a fantastic visual. lol.
This is exactly how it is at our house. I see more naked DH than clothed DH. Clearly the spark is gone from our marriage as well.
Whenever BF is naked (or at least shirtless), some nipple pinching happens. Not happily on his part. He screams like a little girl when I get near them! LOL
That does not a boner make.