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also s/o your next wedding
Does anyone ever read the Second Weddings board on the knot? I've checked it out a couple of times. It doesn't seem very active. And I don't feel like I would have much in common with the people who seem to post there. The "It's Normal" sticky post is kind of interesting, though. The first few:
Its normal to feel guilty that you are having a second wedding
Its normal to feel scared to commit again
Its normal to have some doubts
Its
normal to worry that your credibility is in question since you vowed
"forever" once before (but it is important to know that your credibility
is NOT actually in question, because things change)
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Re: also s/o your next wedding
I didn't know they had a board
is it normal to wonder how you sat next to a man in marriage counseling for a year and the mf'er lied the whole time so you wonder how int he hell you can ever trust anyone again? cuz yeah.
I didn't know they had a board either.
If it wasn't for the fact that I want a couple of kids I would have no incentive to get married ever again.
Yeah, I saw that board a while back.
IMO, I don't think any of those things are "normal" when planning a second wedding. But, that's my opinon. If you have doubts, you shouldn't be getting married.
I agree. That is horrible advice.
We're kind of going out.
Well, if life were so perfect.
I have no idea how I'll feel when I'm at the point of getting married again. But I will definitely be more certain than the first time
Interesting way of putting it - but I agree with you! I'm still on the fence about having kids, but I would definitely want to be married if I decide I want children. Other than that, I don't really see the point of getting married again.
Agree it's terrible. Especially after the first marriage ends in divorce, you should NEVER have a doubt when you remarry.
I think it's trying to make people feel better but seriously, if they can't feel good about it on their own then maybe they shouldn't be doing it. Probably their conscience talking.