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I'll appease Only as well....

Mine is pretty lame...My confession is that like a moron Im stressing over dropping the L word to my BF.  I know I love him (its not just infatuation or the newness) but Im a big chicken and want him to say it first.  I dont know why its stressing me out so much either...I know that thats how I feel and its how Im going to feel for a long time so I get that there isnt a rush and I know he cares for me and we've talked about a future together...I'd just rahter not do it first..cheesy and stupid i know...

My other confession is that I seem to have developed baby fever......there are no babies in my near future either...

Re: I'll appease Only as well....

  • You could blurt it out during sex, like XH did the first time he told me

    I know how you feel about not wanting to be the first to say it.  How long have you been together again?

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  • Lol Im not thinking thats the way to go..

    We've been together 4 months. 

  • imageMintChocoChip:

    You could blurt it out during sex, like XH did the first time he told me

    OMG!  The first guy I dated after XH did this.  We'd only dated a couple weeks and were mid-deed when he said it quietly.  I stopped the show and said "excuse me?" He just tried to get things going again and ignore me, but he definitely said it and I was VERY weirded out. Indifferent

  • What if the BF feels the same way and is waiting for you to say it? Angel
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    They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
  • If you're feeling it, just say it.  I was also kind of waiting for L to say it first, but then I just blurted it out in conversation, lol!

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  • River...thats where Im torn...Im not worried he'll be scared away or anything...he's done and said things that let me know hes in this for the long haul...Im just not sure how Ill react if he doesnt say it back.  I mean, I obviously dont want him to say it unless hes sure...if you arent sure you mean it, you shouldnt say it.  Im alos now sure how to really go about saying it....lol 
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