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Had my first counseling appointment today

It went really well and I like my counselor. She's actually around my age and I think she is someone I can confide in. Actually, I know she is because I went in there and just dumped all my stuff on her in the first session. lol I was crying my eyes out, but she was fine with it. She's going to try to get me in next week if she has a cancellation, but it might be the first of December before she can get me in again due to the holiday.

I feel so relieved that I went. It strengthened my resolve and just based on what I told her today, she says she thinks I am making the right choice in deciding to leave my husband. She said she'll help me navigate and find the right path naturally. I feel sooo much better.

Well, I did until I came home and found a card under my keyboard from dh telling me how much he loves me and wants to make this work. Ugh. That made me feel like crap, actually. 

Re: Had my first counseling appointment today

  • Good for you.  Try to remember the great place you were in from your counseling session and don't let your H take that away from you.  There is a serenity and calm that comes after seeing a counselor.  Hold onto that for as long as you can.
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  • I'm glad to hear it went well. I am going for my first counseling appointment on the 30th. I hope mine goes as well as yours did.
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