May 2008 Weddings
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
beeyotch
Hey I just wanted to see how things were going for you?
I know it wasn't easy for you to post what you posted and I don't want you to get discouraged by anyone's responses.
You need support whether things get better or worse.
Hope all is well
Re: beeyotch
Hey thanks for the well wishes. Things are just really rocky right now. I cannot wait until he goes to the counselor and starts getting his feelings out. Each night he has to go for a walk or get away from me because he is mad for whatever reason. Its really hard to concentrate on school/work when I never get away from stress. I found a porn stash on the computer last weekend so I put a password on so he can only be on when Im home, and put parental controls so he cant get the videos. That was beyond insulting. They were all timestamped for when I was home and in the next room watching TV. Like 30 videos...
Again, thanks for asking. I always know I can come to you girls when Im having problems.
Oh boy that's rough beeyotch... How did he react to that? I forget - are you open to going with him to counseling if he wanted to?
Its great he's going for a walk tho.. Whatever it takes.
I'm really sorry you're going through this...it seems like he has a lot he needs to deal with right now.
I would definitely bring up the porn if/when you do couples counseling.
Are you planning on doing that as well as him doing individual?
I know you once mentioned family in Texas are they crazy or just the Ohio ones? Just trying to see what your resources are in case you don't feel safe and need to get out.
I'm glad you have friends that you can talk to about this.