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EXCUSE ME?!
dulcemariamar1:
Mine is that some people care way too much about a label put on their wedding. Who cares if it is DW? Who cares if it isn't? And getting your husband to create a screen name and post about it, after the fact, is super lame.Why do you think it is her DH?
It was.
Christ on a cracker. I asked him to reply to the Euro post. I had no clue he was going to go on and do that and when I found out I gave him a mouthful. Last night I was upset about the thought of ditching my friend and told him about our convo (and that with my other friend who kept acting like I was the devil for my DW). I did not ask him to do that PLUS he had no idea about all this crap today until after. He thought it would be amusing.
But way to assume the worst and be a passive aggressive jerk.
Listen - Snippy, I don't want to take employment advice from someone who has barely worked a year in the last five and asked a super obvious question (should I go on vacation with my husband because we can have a cheaper trip when I'm still in my probation period and my team needs me?). Honestly, how about you keep your employer knowledge to yourself? Law firm politics are not the same as whatever you think you know.
You self-righteous, egotistical b*tch. I didn't ASK to be unemployed, I HAD to be unemployed because I wasn't allowed a visa in Italy. I've worked my whole.f*cking.life. and managed entire teams of people. I've hired and fired. So don't f*cking tell me I know nothing about employee/-er politics.
Also, you HAVE lived somewhere you hated! I seem to recall you needing drugs to get through life in Italy. Or some sh!t with all your depression. I have never had a problem getting out of the bed or house here in Tstan. So maybe you can be a bit less of a know it all?
Oh! Thanks for throwing the fact that I've struggled with depression, since I was FIFTEEN, BY THE WAY in my face. Depression has NOTHING to do with having a difficult time in Italy. It has EVERYTHING to do with suffering from a DISEASE. Insensitive and STUPID thing to say. How DARE you decide that another person's struggle with disease is something you should mock?! I've spoken about it in an effort to try and change people's minds and opinions about those who struggle every damn day with making the decision to get out of bed, to go to work, TO STRUGGLE AGAINST FEELINGS OF WORTHLESSNESS. But clearly, that effort means nothing to someone who feels superior for.... what? Being an insensitive ***? GOOD FOR YOU.
F*CK. YOU. H and I went through a tough time and it wasn't about the f*cking potty training. But you must be one hell of a lawyer if you couldn't figure that out.
F*ck you a million times over. You are ridiculous. I hope you get to experience the agony of depression just so you can see what it's like. Clearly you lack some serious empathy.
It's been a long time since I was so furious. I am shaking I am so angry. How dare you trivialize someone's emotional struggle because YOU have found something objectionable in the way that I've responded to you. You are pathetic.
Re: EXCUSE ME?!
What did you say that she found objectionable?
In the grand scheme it doesn't really matter, but I was wondering wheeeeere in the hell that rant Snippy slaying rant came from.
Wedding stuff.
The WWIND thread pretty much explains it.
Holy, Jetur, uncalled for much? Snippy wasn't even the "hardest" one on you in that thread so why was she the one who got strung up? Not cool.
I don't know if I was clear in my post... I meant the rant from Jetur to Snippy was uncalled for since Snippy wasn't the only one who disagreed with her.
Jet, you are 100% completely out of line with your attack on Snippy. I cannot even believe you would bring up her depression and try to trivialize it. And I am so tired of your constant I'm better than you attitude, which is coming out in this post.
You live in your own little delusional world, and you believe whatever you want. We've met IRL so I can think what I want about you, because I know it's true.
I'm done with you and your posting, and I'll be blocking you from here on out.
Dave & Jennifer 10.18.08
My Doha Adventures
Yeah sorry, I was the one who was unclear. I wrote that so others who were out of the loop (like myself, before reading the WWIND thread) could figure out where this all came from.
Ahhh, ok.
ETA: It's also in the follow up (?) post to me and dulcemaria.