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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
You Know What I'm...
Really fvcking sick of?
People asking me if I'm sure about the divorce. If one more person says something along the lines of "can't you just make him sleep in the garage for 6 months until he 'gets it'?", I'm gonna cuttabitch.
You know.. because I haven't given this a lot of thought over a really long period of time.
Re: You Know What I'm...
Yeah, cause 6 months in a garage is going to make him change. I don't know the specifics about what happened between you guys but I think you have every right to go off on people who ask such a stupid question. From the little bit that I have read on here it appears you have done everything possible prior to making this very difficult decision and I am sorry people are not supporting you more.
It's just so insulting for people to ask you that, as if them prompting you is going to make you change your mind. "Oh, wow, you know what? I'm NOT sure. Thank you for pointing that out to me!"
& that's the thing... It's not even about him "getting it" at this point. It is so far beyond that. We're two very different people who need very different things. It just doesn't work.
The same person was like "But you were such a cute little wifey! Always baking & your house is adorable!" Well all of that is fvcking great, but it doesn't make a marriage. Grow up.
Don't you LOVE that? I love when relative strangers tell me that we seemed so happy & this is so shocking.
I got the brunt of the awful comments when it came to my house. Everyone had something to say about what to do about it. I didn't want their advice, I wanted to get rid of it. Ugh, people suck.