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WWYD?

What would your reaction be if you found out another woman had been sending your SO naked photos of herself via cell phone? Full body, vag, and one bent over taken from behind.

Posted from an AE obviously to not tarnish my good name. Stick out tongue

Re: WWYD?

  • Lock the doors, empty the accounts and throw his clothes to the front lawn.
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  • Where's HS with the Waiting to Exhale gif? Because um yeah.
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  • imagehuber22:
    Lock the doors, empty the accounts and throw his clothes to the front lawn.
    Too dang cold to go outside right now. I threw them in the garage.
  • Ick. That stuff does not get sent unsolicited, kwim?
  • imageSarHal:
    imagehuber22:
    Lock the doors, empty the accounts and throw his clothes to the front lawn.
    Too dang cold to go outside right now. I threw them in the garage.

    Yeah, I would have just thrown them out the window and hoped that the dog was smelling particularily ripe and rolled in them. And drug a shoe or two to the back 40.

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  • imageSarHal:
    imagehuber22:
    Lock the doors, empty the accounts and throw his clothes to the front lawn.
    Too dang cold to go outside right now. I threw them in the garage.

    Set his sh!t on fire.  That will warm you up.

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  • imageBelichick:

    imageSarHal:
    imagehuber22:
    Lock the doors, empty the accounts and throw his clothes to the front lawn.
    Too dang cold to go outside right now. I threw them in the garage.

    Set his sh!t on fire.  That will warm you up.

    ::gigglesnort:: I needed that.
  • Who is the sender? A previous GF? Did he tell you after the first time the pictures were received? Did he try to hide them from you?

    Need more info?

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  • I would throw the phone in his face, hard.
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  • imageawick14:

    Who is the sender? A previous GF? Did he tell you after the first time the pictures were received? Did he try to hide them from you?

    Need more info?

    The sender is his best friend's little sister, who has had a "thing" for SO for years that she won't give up on.  He did not tell me about the pictures and obviously didn't try to hide them from me.  He kept them in his inbox and let me use his phone.  Maybe he wanted me to find them.

    And the plot thickens.

  • imageSarHal:
    imageawick14:

    Who is the sender? A previous GF? Did he tell you after the first time the pictures were received? Did he try to hide them from you?

    Need more info?

    The sender is his best friend's little sister, who has had a "thing" for SO for years that she won't give up on.  He did not tell me about the pictures and obviously didn't try to hide them from me.  He kept them in his inbox and let me use his phone.  Maybe he wanted me to find them.

    And the plot thickens.

    Hmmmm well it does sound like it's possible she sent them unsolicited but then why didn't he delete them and/or tell you about them?

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    imageSarHal:
    imageawick14:

    Who is the sender? A previous GF? Did he tell you after the first time the pictures were received? Did he try to hide them from you?

    Need more info?

    The sender is his best friend's little sister, who has had a "thing" for SO for years that she won't give up on.  He did not tell me about the pictures and obviously didn't try to hide them from me.  He kept them in his inbox and let me use his phone.  Maybe he wanted me to find them.

    And the plot thickens.

    Hmmmm well it does sound like it's possible she sent them unsolicited but then why didn't he delete them and/or tell you about them?

    Probably saving them to yank to later.
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  • If this guy is just your SO, I'd move on.
  • imageSarHal:
    imageawick14:

    Who is the sender? A previous GF? Did he tell you after the first time the pictures were received? Did he try to hide them from you?

    Need more info?

    The sender is his best friend's little sister, who has had a "thing" for SO for years that she won't give up on.  He did not tell me about the pictures and obviously didn't try to hide them from me.  He kept them in his inbox and let me use his phone.  Maybe he wanted me to find them.

    And the plot thickens.

     

    I'm sure you see now why she's not giving up.  Get a better SO.

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  • imageSarHal:
    imagehuber22:
    Lock the doors, empty the accounts and throw his clothes to the front lawn.
    Too dang cold to go outside right now. I threw them in the garage.

    Is it cold enough to freeze them if you hose them down in the front yard??

    And if it's cold, all the more reason to create a bonfire in your front yard, amiright??



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  • imagedoglove:
    If this guy is just your SO, I'd move on.
    We have a 10 month old child together, so unfortunately that makes the situation a bit more complicated.
  • Please tell me this skank is over 18 ...

    The douchecanoe could be be in a WHOLE world of hurt if she's not.

  • imageSarHal:
    imagedoglove:
    If this guy is just your SO, I'd move on.
    We have a 10 month old child together, so unfortunately that makes the situation a bit more complicated.

    IMO, it makes the situation less complicated.

  • imageHer_Majesty:

    Please tell me this skank is over 18 ...

    The douchecanoe could be be in a WHOLE world of hurt if she's not.

    This.

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  • imageawick14:

    Who is the sender? A previous GF? Did he tell you after the first time the pictures were received? Did he try to hide them from you?

    Need more info?

    i do not understand why the F it matters~

    He didnt delete them, and im sure it wasnt random!



  • I would take all his *** and drop it off at her house!

    Having a child together doesnt make it more difficult...the crime is the same regardless of who is in the picture!



  • What are you planning to do OP?
  • "Accidentally" forward it to his best friend.   (Assuming of course she is over the age of 18).

     

  • Solicited? Unsolicited?  Doesn't that make a difference?  If he's cheating, my guess is that you already suspected this.  If your intuition tells you he is up to something, cut your losses.  He is unlikely to change.

    If this seems totally out of character, is it possible he's an honest bonehead who didn't have the common sense to delete these incredibly incriminating pictures that dropped into his lap?  I know that's a stretch, but they would be a pretty exciting ego boost.

    My guess is that your gut already knows.

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