Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
First counseling session today
I finally found someone who is accepting new patients and is covered by my insurance. He called me last night and can fit me in today. I was a bit surprised to be going in so quickly but it is probably a good thing to get things rolling.
I am feeling a bit anxious about it but he seemed nice enough on the phone. I also feel almost relieved(?) that I am doing this because it makes it real and then I can't hide my feelings anymore. Which is exactly what needs to happen....
Anyways we will see how it goes.
Re: First counseling session today
I can relate to this. Once I said out loud for the first time, "I don't want to be married anymore," it got really real, really fast. Then once I had seen my therapist a couple of times, it got about a thousand times more real.
Then I suddenly found that I couldn't hold it in anymore, and I had to have the conversation with my XH. Once I gave the ball a little push, it started rolling really fast. But that was good for me. Like ripping a bandaid off.
Good luck! I hope you like counseling.