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dating someone I really like

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A funny thing happened... I actually met a guy I really like.  I mean REALLY REALLY like a lot.  Too much.  I cannot stop thinking about him.  He seems to like me too, but I don't know I just wish he was MORE into me.  Like as crazy into me as I am to him.  I almost feel like breaking it off because it is too painful to like a guy this much.  Am I crazy?  Wait... don't answer that.  Okay, go ahead tell me I'm nuts.  I did find out today that he isn't seeing anyone else.  I've been seeing him now for less than a month. Oh, and he doesn't know exactly HOW crazy about him I am.

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Re: dating someone I really like

  • WrappedinCloverWrappedinClover
    I don't know you or anything but these are my thoughts. First, it is always great to feel that way, but to be honest I would take a step back and breathe. One because it will help you chill and perhaps gain some perspective, and two because you might find if you are patient that he is crazy about you too. When my boyfriend and I started dating I fell pretty fast, but if all my mistakes have told me anything it is patience, so I kept calm, then one day he called me and told me he was feeling exactly the same way and I had no idea. That's just my two cents.
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  • farfalla2011farfalla2011 member
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    WrappedinClover has great advice. I also want to say that just be careful and make sure you step back every now and then to actually look at the situation rather than experience it so you can look for red flags. Also, make sure you are still you and not losing yourself in him. I think you being crazy about this guy CAN be a good thing, however you have got to make sure everything else stays in balance. Stay true to yourself and keep your eyes open and you should be ok as long as you don't turn into one of those stage 5 clingers we talked about the other day lol. =)
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