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Sometimes I really hate facebook

So for whatever reason I am still friend's with ex's daughters (my son's sisters).  Well I noticed today that they just became friends with his new girlfriends mom.  The girlfriend isn't on facebook.  Wow they are just one big happy family already.  F*ck me.  This is setting me a few steps back in the healing process.
"How often does the other woman get a happy ending?" Chuck Bass, Gossip Girl

Re: Sometimes I really hate facebook

  • Unfriend and block anyone who has ANY ties to your X. Problem solved.

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  • imagePrettyInPearls23:

    Unfriend and block anyone who has ANY ties to your X. Problem solved.

    Ditto.

    Diamonds, did you break up with that guy?

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  • imagedmarie979:
    imagePrettyInPearls23:

    Unfriend and block anyone who has ANY ties to your X. Problem solved.

    Ditto.

    Diamonds, did you break up with that guy?

    Yup, unfriend and block.  Problems solved. 

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  • imagePrettyInPearls23:

    Unfriend and block anyone who has ANY ties to your X. Problem solved.

    Your little boy is so damn cute.

     

  • imageMrs D in May:
    imagePrettyInPearls23:

    Unfriend and block anyone who has ANY ties to your X. Problem solved.

    Your little boy is so damn cute.

     

    Thank you Smile He has the personality to match!

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  • It seems like (from your posts) that you just like to create unnecessary drama for yourself.

  • Its bizarre to me how this really has any effect on you. HIS girls, have a relationship with HIS new girlfriend and her mom. So what? I mean these aren't people in your life anymore and it seems very natural that this would happen. I mean a few weeks ago you had "moved on" and were considering marriage with someone else. And you wonder why we all said you weren't ready to date someone....
  • imagedoglove:

    It seems like (from your posts) that you just like to create unnecessary drama for yourself.

    This is so much more polite than what I typed and deleted!  Thank you! lol

     

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  • imagepdx18:
    Its bizarre to me how this really has any effect on you. HIS girls, have a relationship with HIS new girlfriend and her mom. So what? I mean these aren't people in your life anymore and it seems very natural that this would happen. I mean a few weeks ago you had "moved on" and were considering marriage with someone else. And you wonder why we all said you weren't ready to date someone....

    Really?  I got dumped.  I am not over it.  I don't understand what part of me being hurt people don't understand?  Yes, I know I can't dwell on it forever but I am currently in a state of mind where it hurts like hell to know that she is there with my ex and my son.  She just replaced me like I never existed.  And no me dating someone new is NOT the same because I am not the one who made the decesion to leave.  I know my ex couldn't give a flying f*ck what I do.

    "How often does the other woman get a happy ending?" Chuck Bass, Gossip Girl
  • imagedmndsr4eva:

    imagepdx18:
    Its bizarre to me how this really has any effect on you. HIS girls, have a relationship with HIS new girlfriend and her mom. So what? I mean these aren't people in your life anymore and it seems very natural that this would happen. I mean a few weeks ago you had "moved on" and were considering marriage with someone else. And you wonder why we all said you weren't ready to date someone....

    Really?  I got dumped.  I am not over it.  I don't understand what part of me being hurt people don't understand?  Yes, I know I can't dwell on it forever but I am currently in a state of mind where it hurts like hell to know that she is there with my ex and my son.  She just replaced me like I never existed.  And no me dating someone new is NOT the same because I am not the one who made the decesion to leave.  I know my ex couldn't give a flying f*ck what I do.

    I think it's totally normal and healthy to feel a tinge of pain by what you saw. It's also completely natural that they are facebook friends with her. Just remember that  nobody is wronging you or trying to hurt you. They aren't sitting there thinking that you are going to look and see they are all friends and "mwahahaha"ing at it. You surely need to block them all and never look back. He has moved on and you need to as well, for your own sanity.

    Holiday
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