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update to my bday weekend
Sat night I went out to celebrate my bday early since it landed on wed this week. Z showed up with a dozen roses and a card that he signed "You mean the world to me". Then Z, my sister, her bf and I all went to this really expensive italian restaurant to stuff our face since we were going out drinking afterward. It was soooo good! We then started out at this upscale bar downtown in which my sister's friend joined us and had a blast dancing with them.
Apparently we're all getting old because my sister(22) and her bf(23) left around midnight as well as her friend. I really didn't want to turn in so early so we went to another bar which usually has a much younger crowd. This is where the night turned ugly. We ran in to Z's roommate on the way in and mentioned something about a bar tender with small boobs. Well turns out he was warning us that she makes horrible drinks. I didn't figure this out until after I ordered my drink. I ordered an amaretto sour in which she made the drink 3/4 sweet and sour mix, 1/4 amaretto. The drink sat on my stomach the whole night and made me sick.
We went back to the hotel and I stayed sick to my stomach to the point it was cramping. Z used poor judgement and initiated sex even with my stomach feeling the way it was. I had tried pushing him off but he didn't get the hint. I actually got in to it but then half way through I had to push him off to prevent puking on him. He honestly felt bad and even was mad at himself for thinking of himself. He apologized all day yesterday because he knew I was pretty annoyed to the point that the next morning I knew he wanted to try again but instead jumped out of bed got dressed and was ready to leave by 9am.
I'm at least happy that I got an evening out with my sister and had a lot of fun minus the ending.
Re: update to my bday weekend
I am very concerned that Z initiated sex with you even though he knew you were sick. This has happened to me before and IMO borderlines rape. Please talk to him about this and let him know he should NEVER try to pull this again!
I'm sorry, Jaksmom. You've been having a rough time lately--will you at least get to relax some over the Thanksgiving holiday?
Also, wanna link to the awesome Italian place? I have the toughest time finding decent Italian food around here!
We talked about it and he really is genuinely sorry. He's never done anything like this before and I think he was just trying to make the most of having a night to ourselves since they're rare with me having a 3 yr old and living at home.
http://www.maggianos.com/en/Pages/home.aspx