So, I had my first date today with the guy I've been talking to all week from eharmony...
We planned to meet a local museum at an exhibit we wanted to see. I saw him and he was a little different than pictures, but not unexpected. I was hoping there would be sparks right away, but there wasn't. I think he was nervous...I was too. Museum was super crowded, so that was difficult to get conversation in.But I knew he was an intersting guy and I wanted to talk further, so I suggested dinner. We drove to dinner and conversation started off slow, but then progressed and I think it just was a slow start or the beer talking, but later on I said to myself "Um...I think I want to kiss him". He drove me back to my car (as we met as the museum) and he walked me to my car and we totally made out like teenagers which was honestly needed and nice. There was talk of a second date...so I think that's good?
I expected sparks to fly right away...but I think this one will take time. He's got alot going for him, so think it's worth seeing where it goes.
Re: First date update
I think that's true, too. What's really important is that all the other pieces are there (we have similar interests, similar humor, he has his sh!t together, etc.)