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met with my counselor today
I feel so much better and glad she was able to get me sooner. I kept my appt for the 30th as well. She wants me off of my current bc and wants me to talk to my gyn about a different one. She wants me to also keep taking my prozac and if the new bc doesn't change things then up my prozac dose.
As far as Z, she said that what happened sat night was a miscommunications. She said guys way of thinking is very different from womens. That in his brain he was so focused on giving me this romantic night away that he couldn't process how sick I was. She said it's much harder for things to register with some guys. She also said that out of all the guys I've dated that he seems to be the better choice. She doesn't want me to slump back in a pattern of abusers and cheaters. So she gave me a list of things to work on, change or adjust. She wants me to find a level of tolerance for Z until I get my emotions under control and pull myself out of this depression. Then once everything is fixed with me and I still don't see things going anywhere then I can end the relationship.
Re: met with my counselor today
Nice... I know this is hard for me too... opening up and telling someone how I feel and what I need w/o feeling like I'm "dumping" on them.... it's not dumping, just creating healthy boundaries and bonds.
This sounds like a really good idea. I'm glad you're feeling better...people can get their signals crossed on all kinds of things, the test is how you handle and resolve them IMO.