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Is it my falt?
Is it my fault that i don't have an orgasm? I want to but it scares me and then when he touches me to try to make me have an orgasm i move away. is it me or what? i want to have one but i dont know how.
Re: Is it my falt?
You're just too nervous and self concious about it. I agree with the others---start doing it by yourself first, without him there. Get yourself a little vibrater and it'd be even easier.
And DON'T THINK TOO MUCH! Overthinking things is a sure way to prevent yourself from relaxing.
Get yourself a vibrator with a butterfly, or some kind of tickler on it and fly solo a few times - believe me, when you do orgasm like that, you will want a repeat performance.
The only way I orgasm is with clit stimulation, and sometimes I prefer it solo flight versus sex with my DH, although that is always good too.