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Dodged a bullet indeed

I was having lunch today with a friend I haven't seen in a while and telling her about the lying liar who lies that I was dating... she's like... what's his name?  I tell her.  She says oh yea, I saw he was your friend on facebook.  I've been meaning to tell you... he dated my boss and beat the *** out of her and broke her nose.  She had to have reconstructive surgery.  She then called me later today to tell me that he is a known girlfriend beater in this town, it wasn't an isolated incident... has been arrested multiple times for it.  WTF?????????? 

Some guys should come with warning labels.  You would NEVER think it of this guy if you met him. 

Re: Dodged a bullet indeed

  • Wow.  You certainly did.  That's not something that is generally an isolated event, glad you got out!
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  • Wow indeed. I am glad your friend told you. 
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  • So glad you got out of that!!!!
  • So very glad that you got out of the situation safely.
    "You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness."
  • imagegmginny:

    ... She says oh yea, I saw he was your friend on facebook.  I've been meaning to tell you...

    I'm glad you got out unscathed, but I think your friend kind of dropped the sisterhood ball. I mean, he's a known abuser, she's in direct contact with one of his victims, and she meant to call you? She should have picked up the phone and called you the second she saw that on fb, imho.

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  • imageMixedBerryJam:
    imagegmginny:

    ... She says oh yea, I saw he was your friend on facebook.  I've been meaning to tell you...

    I'm glad you got out unscathed, but I think your friend kind of dropped the sisterhood ball. I mean, he's a known abuser, she's in direct contact with one of his victims, and she meant to call you? She should have picked up the phone and called you the second she saw that on fb, imho.

    I feel the same way. I would hope that if my friend found out this kind of information she would pick up the phone and call me immediately no matter the time of day. That is a pretty important tidbit of information. 

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  • imageNinjaPaants:
    imageMixedBerryJam:
    imagegmginny:

    ... She says oh yea, I saw he was your friend on facebook.  I've been meaning to tell you...

    I'm glad you got out unscathed, but I think your friend kind of dropped the sisterhood ball. I mean, he's a known abuser, she's in direct contact with one of his victims, and she meant to call you? She should have picked up the phone and called you the second she saw that on fb, imho.

    I feel the same way. I would hope that if my friend found out this kind of information she would pick up the phone and call me immediately no matter the time of day. That is a pretty important tidbit of information. 

    I know, I gave her *** about that

  • imageMixedBerryJam:
    imagegmginny:

    ... She says oh yea, I saw he was your friend on facebook.  I've been meaning to tell you...

    I'm glad you got out unscathed, but I think your friend kind of dropped the sisterhood ball. I mean, he's a known abuser, she's in direct contact with one of his victims, and she meant to call you? She should have picked up the phone and called you the second she saw that on fb, imho.

    The friend only knew he was her FB friend, not that they were dating.

     

    image "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self esteem, first make sure you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.
  • You certainly did. 
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