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advice??
sorry its kinda weird to ask for advice but here goes.. DH and I have been married for a year and a half now and i our son in august. well now after having been pregnant i realize how good i DID look,i never thought so at the time but i miss 115 and size 3. well DH and i used to have sex 4-8 times a day now we are doing good if we do ever other day. is it my fault i still have about 30lbs after having our son and all the marks on my skin.i guess it bothers me and i wonder if it bothers him and this is the reason for the slow down? we got pregnant pretty quickly so i wonder if this is normal slow down or not?
Re: advice??
4-8 times a day?
Liar.
If you wonder if it bothers him, ask HIM, talk to HIM, not us.
And yes its normal to "slow down" (if every other day is slowing down) after a while of marriage and having a kid.
Every other day is still a lot to most normal people.
4-8 times a day?
I don't believe it either. That's an impossible pace to keep up daily. How long were you keeping up this supposed pace? Years?
4-8 times a day!
Am i correct to say that you just lost a baby not to long ago? Maybe this has something to do with the drop in sex. This is a hard time for the both of you. I can't imagine that this would not affect your sex life at least a little. Have you talked to him about it? I am willing to bet that this has nothing to do with you gaining some baby weight. If you are not going to a counseling i would recommend it.
Every other day? And you are complaining?
Yes, it is normal for libido to change after a child enters the picture.
It can take your body up to a year to bounce back to pre-pregnancy levels. Go easy on yourself.
How are WE supposed to know? Ask HIM.