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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
I didn't even cry today! (br sorta)
My SIL had her baby shower today. I'm so happy for her because she's been through e years of IF and finally got her BFP on her third IUI however.... had I not had a M/C her and I would have been 11 days apart.
I did pretty well all things considered. I only got sad once when her SIL asked me if seeing my SIL made me want to "get in the game"....I wanted to say...." it's a lot harder than they would lead you to believe in high school", In my heart I know she knows that because she herself has had 1 M/C and she had one baby that did not have a skeletal structure that they had to end the pregnancy but she does have 2 healthy girls and is pregnant with a boy.
SIGH I hope it can be my turn soon!
Thanks for listening to this ramble.
Our Fur-babies!
Re: I didn't even cry today! (br sorta)
That couldn't have been easy. I'm sorry.
Hugs.
((Hugs))
I think you handled the "your turn" question well! (When someone asked me once when it was "my turn," my snarky response was "Well, we have an appt with the RE next week. Thanks for asking." That shut her up!)
Picture courtesy of Heidi Keene Photography
Ugh, I've been there as well with my step-sister's shower. :-( I think you handled the question well. I generally would turn into a mess when people would ask me things. And to this day, two kids later, I still will spew my trials and tribulations if someone asks the right questions.
I know you said you posted on the wrong board, but I know there are plenty of girls on this board who have been where you are now. Don't be afraid to look to this board for support as well. :-)
While it gets easier day by day, I don't think that it ever goes away. My last MC was 8-9 months ago and seeing a random photo last week sent me into an hour long tailspin.
Good luck to you on your pregnancy journey.