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Loser ex has me so mad right now

Okay so I had a really miserable ex he was abusive and skirted fidelity never actually having sex but trolling the internet for women to agree to meet with him and building relationships. I got out of that marriage and later married a great guy. My ex out of the blue contacts me telling me he knows I was cheating on him with my current husband ( I hadnt even met him yet) I shouldnt be angry but it just pisses me off that I try to be a good woman every day and he's out there telling people I'm a cheater.
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Re: Loser ex has me so mad right now

  • Why do you still have contact with him?

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  • This was more out of the blue. I did occationally check in on him because he is physically disabled and is family is in another country.
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  • Block his number. 
  • So block him, change your number, whatever. But get this jerk out of your life.
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  • imageSue_sue:
    So block him, change your number, whatever. But get this jerk out of your life.

     

    Also, cheaters make themselves feel better by accusing others of cheating!

  • imagejulie324:

    Also, cheaters make themselves feel better by accusing others of cheating!

    Ditto this.

    If this man was abusive to you and you are still calling him after you have divorced to "check up on him" then you have co-dependency issues.  Take care of that problem.

    image "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self esteem, first make sure you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.
  • My XFI has told people I cheated on him (and that I dated a stripper?)  I just laugh it off.  ANYONE who would believe him isn't worth having in my life.  He is blocked on FB, my phone, and my email puts him in junk mail automatically.  I live in a medium sized town so other people used to always tell me what he was saying, and I just told them to knock it off.  I don't care.
  • Ditto PP's. My ex told people I had anger management issues, I was an alcoholic, I was abusive to him, I was crazy/ bi polar, and much more... Guess what? I know the truth and just laugh. He told friends all of this. The ones that came to me and didn't believe him are still my friends. The rest I cut out of my life.
  • I have him blocked on everything now he was only unblocked on one email but thats changed. I'm not codependant just dont want to feel guilty if he falls and dies, but I'm not stressing it any more.
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