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Feeling Blah!
I have been having a sinking feeling all day. I am doing my best to live normal and keep myself busy with social life and making new friends. I am not yet divorced and am not in the position to date right now.
So far, the social friends are all single and most of them can't stop worrying/talking about when they will find their one's. I am in the awkward position of being someone new and being asked if I am married, single, have kids and etc. Not only that, I hate news like the one with Jennifer Lopez who is already having family gatherings with a much younger guy who comes of immature and it only has been weeks.
I trying hard to be the best person I can be and not put myself in disrespectful situations. I still can't help but feel like I am being judged. I almost feel like I need to hide at home for awhile which I really don't want to. I know, I know... I need to not take anything personally and only worry about myself but it is so much harder to do than say. It just a yucky feeling day for me. Thanks for letting me vent.
Re: Feeling Blah!
Sep123 - Thanks for your encouraging words. I am in therapy and will remain going since they are doing wonders, even after 4 months of weekly visits. Friends, I am so thankful for them and they do help.
I sure can't wait for this to pass, that is for sure.
I am so sorry about your friends not being there for you. You have a great plan in place and I am rooting for you.