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I guess the Pregnant w/alc husband thread was DD?

She said she drank and he still does. she's about to hatch out a chalupa and she wants to know what to do.

He drinks and drives, he hides booze in the car, etc. She probably didn't like it when she got flamed for permitting him to drink and drive...hence the dd.

Re: I guess the Pregnant w/alc husband thread was DD?

  • This is such flame-bait but I have to say it or my head will explode.

    I'm so friggin' tired of woman screwing gross, loser men and then being amazed when they their kid's father ends up being a gross loser. 

    I know that people change, accidents happen, relationships are fluid ect ect. and even situations that start perfectly can change.

    But if you're like "hehe omg you're so much fun Mr. Drunk Dude woo hoo let's have unprotected sex!" then don't be like "omg wtf I'm pregnant and baby daddy isn't suddenly Dude of the Year." 

  • imageXSailoretteX:

    I'm so friggin' tired of woman screwing gross, loser men and then being amazed when they their kid's father ends up being a gross loser. 

    I don't see what is flame-bait about this at all.  I fully agree.  I really wish women would get a sense of self and self esteem and realize they don't have to marry the first idiot they date. 

    I also wish people would start realizing that having a child is a HUGE life-altering event. And it's expensive.  And it's HARD. 

     

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  • It was a bummer she dd'ed. She said it was a made up profile so I dont understand why she would feel she had to.
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  • The truth hurts, maybe someone hit a nerve?


  • imageEastCoastBride:
    imageXSailoretteX:

    I'm so friggin' tired of woman screwing gross, loser men and then being amazed when they their kid's father ends up being a gross loser. 

    I don't see what is flame-bait about this at all.  I fully agree.  I really wish women would get a sense of self and self esteem and realize they don't have to marry the first idiot they date. 

    I also wish people would start realizing that having a child is a HUGE life-altering event. And it's expensive.  And it's HARD. 

     

     

    It isn't even the marriage thing to me.  It's the sex.  No matter how careful you are, there's always some risk of pregnancy.  And unless you're 100% prepared to go through with an abortion, you need to think long and hard before you accept someone as good enough to f*ck.  That goes double for men, since the decision to abort is out of their hands.

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  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    imageEastCoastBride:
    imageXSailoretteX:

    I'm so friggin' tired of woman screwing gross, loser men and then being amazed when they their kid's father ends up being a gross loser. 

    I don't see what is flame-bait about this at all.  I fully agree.  I really wish women would get a sense of self and self esteem and realize they don't have to marry the first idiot they date. 

    I also wish people would start realizing that having a child is a HUGE life-altering event. And it's expensive.  And it's HARD. 

     

     

    It isn't even the marriage thing to me.  It's the sex.  No matter how careful you are, there's always some risk of pregnancy.  And unless you're 100% prepared to go through with an abortion, you need to think long and hard before you accept someone as good enough to f*ck.  That goes double for men, since the decision to abort is out of their hands.

     

    All of the above.

  • imageRaiKai:
    imageReturnOfKuus:

    It isn't even the marriage thing to me.  It's the sex.  No matter how careful you are, there's always some risk of pregnancy.  And unless you're 100% prepared to go through with an abortion, you need to think long and hard before you accept someone as good enough to f*ck.  That goes double for men, since the decision to abort is out of their hands.

    All of the above.

    Amen.   

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