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What are you getting DH/SO for xmas?

What's on their list? Do you usually buy one big present, a bunch of small presents, one big present and small presents or what?

Re: What are you getting DH/SO for xmas?

  • I'm not sure. I was going to get him a mitre saw but now I can't. Probably Bobby Flay's new cookbook. Maybe a smoker, but I have to price them out.
  • Instead of giving each other gifts, we usually go out for an expensive dinner and get a room in a swanky hotel.  When we do exchange gifts, they're usually small and inexpensive- the last time we did this, I got him Transformers Monopoly and he got me a cutting board made of recycled flask husk and a subscription to Ms. magazine.

    ETA: that should say flax husk, not flask.  Although a flask sounds good right about now.

  • I think he will get a private lesson or 2 at his gym and a hoodie he's been admiring. We have a spending cap and I think that's enough to hit it. So, to answer your questions, this year it's primarily a big present, but that changes up each year depending on what the needs/wants are.
    I agree with everything that muddled said. You should listen to her. -ESDReturns
  • So far I've gotten him a nice gun cleaning kit. I have no idea what else I'm going to get him.
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  • I got him a personalized hoodie (from Zazzle).  It says "BearMonk Industries" on the upper lefthand part of the chest and then under that it says "est 2005" (the year we got married).  I LOVE it!  The quality is great, but I ordered the wrong size.  I was shocked when they told me I could return it (I figured I'd just have to re-buy it)... and then when I got it and submitted the return request, they told me just to keep it and they'd send the one in the right size.  So I'm SUPER impressed with Zazzle's customer service.

    I also got him an Erector set because he told me that he never got to have one as a kid and always wanted one.  I got him Adele 19 (because he's OBSESSED with 21), Tropic Thunder on DVD, a book Richard Scarry book that he told me he and his mom wore out three of when he was little, this book he wanted about a guy who built a toaster (actually mined the raw materials, etc), and some of his favorite shaving cream.

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  • I'm getting him a galaxy tab. Since I'm not rolling in the dough, my mom and MIL are contributing so it will be a joint gift.
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  • We usually just do a stocking, so I got him some drum sticks, a crapton of snickers, and some mini bottles of liquor. I might get him a food dehydrator because he's always waxing lyrical about how awesooome venison jerky is.  Which won't fit in a stocking, but tough cookies.

    [eta] I also plan on getting him a gift cert to a local pizzeria he loves, if they have gift certs.  The owner knows H by phone number though so I'm sure we can work something out, heh. 

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  • All very cool ideas. That hoodie company sounds pretty awesome imoan. FI said he'd like a telescope, but I'm not sure what constitutes decent quality at a not so high price. Most that I've seen are $200-300+ and that's beyond our spending limit. Would something like this be too cheaply made do you think?

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    I got him a personalized hoodie (from Zazzle).  It says "BearMonk Industries" on the upper lefthand part of the chest and then under that it says "est 2005" (the year we got married).  I LOVE it!  The quality is great, but I ordered the wrong size.  I was shocked when they told me I could return it (I figured I'd just have to re-buy it)... and then when I got it and submitted the return request, they told me just to keep it and they'd send the one in the right size.  So I'm SUPER impressed with Zazzle's customer service.


    CUTE imoan! DH used to make a lot of t-shirts through Zazzle. They are a pretty good company- super vigilant about copyright issues, which drives DH nuts, of course. 

    I agree with everything that muddled said. You should listen to her. -ESDReturns
  • This is our first Christmas together, woo hoo! I'm getting him a few small-ish things. I saw a shirt I thought would look good on him, and I am having a really cute picture I took of him and the little dude framed for his office, and I am trying to track down a pair of his favorite jeans. 

    Oh, and I want to find him a yellow stegosaurus eraser as kind of a funny gift because he told me about losing his favorite yellow stegosaurus eraser as a child, but so far, no luck.  

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    This is our first Christmas together, woo hoo! I'm getting him a few small-ish things. I saw a shirt I thought would look good on him, and I am having a really cute picture I took of him and the little dude framed for his office, and I am trying to track down a pair of his favorite jeans. 

    Oh, and I want to find him a yellow stegosaurus eraser as kind of a funny gift because he told me about losing his favorite yellow stegosaurus eraser as a child, but so far, no luck.  

    http://www.pepperell.com/Products/Yellow-Dinosaur-Stegosaurus-Eraser__DINO1-spc-UPC-spc-7-spc-25879-spc-10143-spc-5.aspx

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  • He gave me a list of like 12 video games, I want off the list a bit.

    I bought him an Ipod Nano as his big gift

    and then some Karate gear and a couple blu-rays as his smaller gifts.

    "You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness."
  • I'm going to get him a sausage stuffing horn and maybe a new camera. The latter is really for both of us, though, since we don't have a decent camera to our names and we take a lot of pictures.

    We usually do one medium-ish gift each, maybe $50-$100.

  • Nothing big, neither of us really want anything and when we want things, we tend to buy them anyway (we bought two new recliners on Saturday, so perhaps those are our "gifts" to each other, ha).

    H said he was going to buy some sort of trinket though to have something to give on Christmas, so I will think of something as well. Not easy to do as, like I said, generally if we really want something we will have already bought it, and neither of us likes "stuff" that is just going to sit around.

  • We don't buy each other Christmas gifts. Sometimes we buy something we both want that's mildly expensive, but we don't even really do that anymore. We're grinches. 

    Although I do sometimes pick up something small for him. I don't think there is anything in particular that he wants, though. 

  • imageimoan:
    imageInterrobang:

    This is our first Christmas together, woo hoo! I'm getting him a few small-ish things. I saw a shirt I thought would look good on him, and I am having a really cute picture I took of him and the little dude framed for his office, and I am trying to track down a pair of his favorite jeans. 

    Oh, and I want to find him a yellow stegosaurus eraser as kind of a funny gift because he told me about losing his favorite yellow stegosaurus eraser as a child, but so far, no luck.  

    http://www.pepperell.com/Products/Yellow-Dinosaur-Stegosaurus-Eraser__DINO1-spc-UPC-spc-7-spc-25879-spc-10143-spc-5.aspx

    Sweet! Now I want to know why the heck that didn't show up when I Googled.  

  • I bought FI a new LED TV during black friday.
  • Gun cleaning kits and sausage stuffers? Sounds like my DH and some of your DHs would get along. He'd getting a rifle, because he is just that redneck deep down and that is what he wanted. And some cufflinks, because I needed to class it up a bit lol.
  • I tend towards several smaller things, he usually buys me one larger thing.

    I'm getting him a warm hat that he saw and liked, several things from ThinkGeek, and a couple other little things (candy, nice underwear). I had a couple other ideas, but I have to stop myself from getting every little thing I see that he might like... but his birthday's in January, so I guess I can save some things to give then if I feel like it's too many items.

    I think he's getting me a Kindle. He's not terribly good at being secretive.  

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  • A baby. I got him a baby. I might even wrap it up if I can find the right onesie.
  • DH is getting his Star Wars MMORPG.
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  • DH is getting a leather recliner. 

    Some years we do very small gifts, like $20 each if we're saving for something. Some years it's a big one. This year so happens to be a big one, though I don't really want anything. We weren't going to do much but I got one HELL of a deal so.. And chances are he'll buy something big even if we say no gifts. He always does.  

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  • We're doing a couple small gifts

    I got H the Boogie Board LCD writing tablet from Brookstone, a few shirts, an ornament (it's the leg lamp from A Christmas Story) and the thing he'll probably love more than life itself: a replacement copy of his Beastie Boys License To Ill album...oh yeah, it's a casette. His truck only accepts casettes and I know all he wants to do is rock out to it on his way home from work

    I actually feel like I did pretty good for H this year.

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    a replacement copy of his Beastie Boys License To Ill album...oh yeah, it's a casette. His truck only accepts casettes and I know all he wants to do is rock out to it on his way home from work

    This is BIG TIME AWESOME.

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     His truck only accepts casettes and I know all he wants to do is rock out to it on his way home from work

    I feel his pain as my car only has a casette player and I have no more of those.

  • I typically get him one big gift (something he really wants) and then a bunch of smaller stuff like underwear and socks, or a new Phillies t-shirt or something.  This year though, he gets one gift and that's it.  I bought him a (pretty pricy) weedwacker that he's been wanting forever.  I haven't given him my list, so we'll see what he's come up with for me!
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    I think he's getting me a Kindle. He's not terribly good at being secretive.  

     DH bought me the Kindle Touch for my birthday and I just got it on Monday--it is awesome! :)

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  • Hubby bought me the IPAD 2 :) and since he is a huge steelers fan I bought him an personalized jersey that says 'big bull' and #81 for the year he was born. I also loaded his stocking full of boxers, socks, and white tees.
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