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A clicky poll: cheating

Because I love clicky polls and this is a topic that never seems to be talked about on here, but I understand why... did you ever cheat or were you ever the OW?[Poll]

Re: A clicky poll: cheating

  • I'm assuming it doesn't count if they're separated but the divorce isn't final.  I didn't consider it cheating when I slept with someone after I filed but before the divorce decree.

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  • imageMintChocoChip:

    I'm assuming it doesn't count if they're separated but the divorce isn't final.  I didn't consider it cheating when I slept with someone after I filed but before the divorce decree.

    This is how I feel

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  • Never cheated. Never been the OW. 

    I was legally separated and going through the divorce when I started dating. I also once dated a man going through a divorce when I was 23. They both worked in my building and she confirmed that they were not together, she actually warned me not to date him cause he was a jerk. She was right! So the lesson is even if you are trying to be nice and warn the new/ow she will most likely need to learn the hard way. Good thing I got smart fast. 

     

     

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  • imageMintChocoChip:

    I'm assuming it doesn't count if they're separated but the divorce isn't final.  I didn't consider it cheating when I slept with someone after I filed but before the divorce decree.

     

    Didn't even think of this, but I don't consider it cheating either. My XH was in the process of divorcing when we started sleeping together and I was sleeping with someone else after I filed/before it was final.

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