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Before I headed to work I swore I read a post about a lady that was mad at her MIL because the MIL was offering for people to stay in the DIL's guest room and the DIL was mad because she'd have to wash the sheets before her Mom came to visit.
Did I imagine that?
Re: Was there a DD?
If there's enough interest--I am pretty sure it is still open on my desktop at home.
Don't get the DD in this case though, unless some much harsher posts were added after I looked this morning...
Well when you post something on the internet everyone MUST agree with you... *eyeroll*
So angry at mil right now.
So, why didnt your HUSBAND tell her no? Why doesnt your H wash the sheeets?
Why not be angry at your H? He has allowed his mother to do stuff like this.
You as owner of the house also have the right to tell her no.
Oh believe me I am angry with him also. And I would DEFINITELY make him wash the sheets but his brother won't be awake by the time H needs to leave for work (his brother sleeps until at LEAST 11.) And my mom will be here by 4 pm before my H gets off work (around 5:30-6 sometimes later)
Now the sheets probably don't HAVE to be done right when she gets here but I will have to do them if I want them done. H usually purposefully does a shitty job on house hold jobs ( most likely so that I stop asking him to do them) .
Yeah, that would make me really mad. At both your MIL and at your H.
However it sounds like it happens a lot and you usually don't really mind so I can see why no one thought too much about this time being any different.
I would lock the door so that BIL can't come in the house. Your ILS already have a key? Take it