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quick question to parents (a what if)

What if your child brought home a little crafty art project that said "Happy Ramadan." ??

Would it be different if they brought home other things that said, "Happy Hanukkah," "Happy Kwanzaa," and "Merry Christmas?" at the same time?

 

Just wanted to get the perspective of others. I've never taught anything about Ramadan but I've done the other three. I have several Muslim students and our social studies unit is called "People and Celebrations" but we have no actual curriculum. They mainly say, "teach people and celebrations from this date to this date during your integrated studies time." I'm totally fine with it but I understand that I'm not always a good representation of the general public. 

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  • I'd be totally fine with to but I'm not always a good representation of the general public either.  I'd be disappointed if he ONLY came home with a Merry Christmas project.

    I think it's important to recognize all celebrations, especially when  you have several Muslim students.

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  • Know what it is you're celebrating before you go ahead a make a Ramadan (or other religious holiday) coaster or what-have-you, make sure the kids know, and send a flier home so the parents know.
  • I agree with Teri- a flier home ahead of time, mentioning that you will be teaching about/ celebrating all sorts of holidays would be good. I wouldn't have an issue with it, but it would be nice to know ahead of time.

    In our situation, I would be confused if it were went home (from a catholic school). That said, we celebrate Hannukah in our house too:)

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  • In Lincoln, Nebraska, I wouldn't do it.   Not because I don't agree with you but because parents (sometimes influential ones) can get worked up about things.

    Personally, in a public school I wouldn't touch any of those religions or even say Merry Christmas.    Sad, huh?

    Talk to principal and administration first to get their blessing.   

  • Just send something home that says you are celebrating/teaching other cultures just so you can head off some of the complaints. I, personally, wouldn't have a problem with it.
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    In Lincoln, Nebraska, I wouldn't do it.   Not because I don't agree with you but because parents (sometimes influential ones) can get worked up about things.

    Personally, in a public school I wouldn't touch any of those religions or even say Merry Christmas.    Sad, huh?

    Talk to principal and administration first to get their blessing.   

    I agree with the above. Personally, I would love if a teacher was educating my child about world religion and other culture's celebrations...however, I'm from a very liberal background/state and I had never heard anyone say "Merry Christmas" to a stranger in a retail store until I moved to NE....

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  • I'd have no issue with it. 
  • I wouldnt think twice about it, but I agree with smiles that I'd definitely get administration permission first.. some parents are crazy.
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  • It would not bother me, but I wouldn't do it at my school.  I think 99% would be okay with it, but that 1% can make a lot of noise.  However,I agree that if you are going to do it, send home a little background information.  Isn't it sad that it is even an issue??
  • As an atheist parent, I would prefer my child not be to asked to celebrate any religious holiday in public school.  I certainly don't mind them learning about it, in fact, I would hope that public school teaches them about many religions, but posters saying "Happy [insert holiday]", I wouldn't be crazy about, BUT I certainly wouldn't throw a fit about it either.
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    As an atheist parent, I would prefer my child not be to asked to celebrate any religious holiday in public school.  I certainly don't mind them learning about it, in fact, I would hope that public school teaches them about many religions, but posters saying "Happy [insert holiday]", I wouldn't be crazy about, BUT I certainly wouldn't throw a fit about it either.

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  • In past years, I've done a Holidays Around the World. At 4, they are SO obsessed with Santa and Christmas, that I kind of HAVE to talk about how other kids celebrate holidays in December. We talk about it all at their level, and I send a note home to parents that we are talking about these holidays. We also make a WINTER gift -- it doesn't say Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays. The last couple years, I've made "snowman soup" (hot chocolate) when we talk about winter traditions in Nebraska, and that's what we send home.

    I'm not doing much with it this year -- I have several parents who have confided that they don't have Christmas. (Not because they don't believe in it but because they can't afford it) So, we're making calendars with finger prints to "celebrate" 2012.

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  • I'd be ok with the teaching of different beliefs, but agree a heads up would be appreciated mostly so I would have the opportunity to educate myself in case C came home with questions :)
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  • I wouldn't be. if they can't teach Christian things in school, then it needs to.apply to all faiths. if religion can't be in schools, it should apply to everything. I'll be honest, is be all wtf is this, if he brought home a Ramadan card.
  • Everything I do is "secularized." We talk about Hanukkah being celebrated by Jewish people and that it's 8 days long because they only had a little oil but it lasted for 8 days. We talk about the food and that 1 candle is lit each night. No religious discussion. 

     

    Ramadan is centered around doing good for others. They don't eat when the sun is up. They use all of their time to be a good friend. They also make sure they don't tell any lies or gossip because those are not good.

     

    Christmas is the one that's hard to secularize but they're usually so wound up that I can read rock star Santa and talk about giving as opposed to receiving and call it good.

     

    Since they're so young, everything I do is very broad and most of the time I can get away with being overly basic and a bit vague.

    "Funny" story. My first year here the 1st grade did a little program for Black History month. They sang a couple of little songs about MLL and had a little skit about getting to know people. Some parent sent a letter to the editor about how terrible it was that we were teaching black supremacy or something crazy like that. One of the teachers is AS and the other is married to a man who is AS and they have 3 kids who identify themselves as Aa.  Apparently that one parent want comfortable with that. Luckily, that parent is gone.

     Thanks for the input. I already had it all written up in a note about the unit. I do lots of those so it's no biggie. My principal is very supportive about cultural awareness. I'm sure he'll be on board but I'll be sure to run it by him. I'd rather these kids have a positive first experience with the Muslim religion especially since turning on the TV gives you a much different perspective. It might prevent some prejudices as they grow if they understand that the norm is not what they see on the news.  

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  • imagetiff-n-nick:
    I wouldn't be. if they can't teach Christian things in school, then it needs to.apply to all faiths. if religion can't be in schools, it should apply to everything. I'll be honest, is be all wtf is this, if he brought home a Ramadan card.

    Ditto!

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