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I think it's a bust...
...so T, the guy I've seen a few times and been talking to for a few weeks, slept over last night when he got back in town from an overseas business trip. He llives about an hour an a half away, so I knew he was going It was sort of quietly akward at first, but I knew he was exhausted. We went to sleep...fooled around (but didn't sleep together as we haven't yet and there was no pressure to whatsoever) and cuddled a little before we went to sleep. My place is loud outside and I know neither one of us slept well at.all. There was no cuddling, etc. T got up super early and then just didn't come back to my bedroom. I got up about 20 minutes later and went to see what he was up to. He was fully dressed, watching TV. He said he'd been up for a while and just couldn't go to sleep. It was then super awkward? I asked him if he was just going to go and he said "Well, I wasn't going to leave without saying goodbye"? It was weird.
I asked if he wanted to grab breakfast...so we did. Breakfast was fine...then he just dropped me off at my place. I asked him "So, I'll see you again?" and he said "yes" but normaly he makes concrete plans. He totally didn't.
I wayyyyyyy got the vibe he's just not into it. I'm really not expecting to hear from him.
Back to the drawing board...sigh.
Re: I think it's a bust...
I bet he was just irritated not to have gone further with you the night before. Either way, it was not the best way for him to behave
My thoughts exactly...
A big thumbs up on that.