Trouble in Paradise
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Update: I'm leaving my narcissist DH.
I've decided to leave him.
Re: Update: I'm leaving my narcissist DH.
We had the baby talk again and of course he acted like he was doing me a favor just to start a family with me. Plus his mother called me something like a "pushover" for putting up with all his demands. Since he refused to seek couple's counseling, I started to seek counseling on my own (like the board suggested).
What we had was codependency. This man doesn't love me, he loves himself more.
Thanks, this time I am sure. I have enough self respect not to back down or stay in this marriage any longer.
/pours one out for the coke can penis
Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
Good for you! Steel yourself for any attempts at winning yo back or damaging your reputation when you refuse him.
I'm proud of you, good luck!
Thank you.
Thank you.
No I have not told my mother and her family, my mom is one of those woman who thinks that I should be greatful I found a man.ETC.
I've told my sister whom I'm close with and 2 girlfriends. They've been very supportive.
thank you.
Thank you.
I'm glad to hear that you have a support system. I know you were worried about how your family would react. What you are doing, no matter how good of a choice it is, is never easy, so I hope you will be able to lean on your sister and your friends. You can tell more people when you feel ready.
Good luck.