Trouble in Paradise
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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UPDATE XP
I shared it on the Single Parents board.
Thank you all for your advice. Except for your judgemental bitchess.
Re: UPDATE XP
It's "judgmental".
Have you met AirIsRunningOut or dmnds? I have a feeling that you three would be great friends.
Like.
Because I'm wearing my Judgey Pants (tm) today and it feels gooooooood. *hitches up mah britches*
It's "judging".
Yeeeeah, good luck with that.
Because you make bad decisions and post about them in public forums. Also the spelling.
No words for how stupid you are.
Just no words.
I'm sure you meant this in a completely nonjudgmental way.
Maybe because you told the people in the SP board to F--- Off when they told you something you didn't want to hear, or maybe because you're getting an attitude here because people told you things you didn't want to hear. Guess what - you post in a PUBLIC message board about some pisspoor decision you want to make (and in this case, it is a pisspoor decision), people aren't going to coddle you and tell you what you want to hear. You only think it's judgmental b*tchiness because people didn't agree with you. Maybe you should listen to every single poster who told you it's a bad idea to mess around with a married guy (oh good, now he's supposedly getting divorced. And you're still married.) and think about what it'll do to your and his kids. You opened yourself up to others' opinions. Getting defensive when no one agrees with you and telling people to F--- Off is the surest way to alienate yourself and be deemed a nutjob. You sound like a real peach. Good luck with your possibly ending marriage and involvement with a guy who's possibly getting divorced. Oh, and grow up.
Bye bye, now.
Anyone want to take bets on how long it'll be before we hear the "you don't know me" and "it's my LYFE!!!!111!!!" from this one?
Is that a particular person you're speaking of? Like "Your Royal Highness"?
I call dibs on Your Judgemental Bitchess.
I commented on SO, but didn't want to risk the chance that you'd miss my post;
Can you just give your kids up for adoption NOW? Because it's obvious that you're going to be one of those mothers who moves her kids from boyfriend's house to boyfriend's house.
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
You have no idea what kind of mother I am. I have stayed in this marriage for years because I thought it was what was best for my child. I would never bounce from one house to one house, so get off you high horse.
And yet, that's exactly what you're doing. Sit there and justify it to yourself all you want, you don't get the freedom to act like a self-involved twat just because you stayed in a crap marriage. I went through my own divorce, and, yet, I managed not to jump into a married man's bed.
I stand by my comment.
So is the problem here that I'm technically married? It would be okay for me to go on ONE DATE with a man who was separated and pursuing a divorce if I were single? Is that it?
Bowies and I will happily stay on our high horse. Mark my words... we'll see you talking about being engaged with this new guy before Easter. And then when THAT goes south, you'll move on to another guy. And another. And another. And your kids will be the one to pay for the fact that you are incapable of being a woman without a man.
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
So is the problem here that I'm technically married? It would be okay for me to go on ONE DATE with a man who was separated and pursuing a divorce if I were single? Is that it?
There's no such thing as being technically married. You are married. Happily, no. But you are. And not even sure if you want to divorce. The problem is that BOTH of you are married, and have kids. And it's really kind of pathetic how happy you are that someone else's marriage is ending, so you can have him to yourself. Then there's the fact that you've been separated for what, five minutes, and can't wait to hop into a relationship with someone else. You seem to think you deserve a prize for staying in an unhappy marriage, when in fact you should be running to a therapist and away from any new relationships, to find out why you stayed in a crappy marriage. It's not a badge of honor. It was your bad choice.
Im a lurker here, but I feel like coming out for this one.
When you posted on SP, you must not have read many of our posts there because you would have realized that many of us, most of us, do not like people who have affairs. Why? Because that is why most of us are single parents. And yet, you wanted people who were single because of an affair, to say yours was ok? WTH?? Seriously. I feel sorry for your children. Hopefully someone will be able to teach them morals and values because you are sadly lacking.
*Claps*