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So FSIL informed me last night she wants the bridesmaids hair up because her's will be down. If I wear my hair up it looks like a torpedo in the styles she likes.
These are the 3 she has in mind


And ironically this last one I wanted to do with my hair for my wedding but got told I had too much hair and it would look like a torpedo.
I'm seriously considering chopping my hair off in August just so I can wear it down.
All of my bridesmaids but one wore there hair down and I did too and it didn't look funny. She's worried about it looking funny if she wears her's down and we do too.
Thoughts?
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Re: Hair Help
I think she wants us all the same and she is thinking kind of messy but put together if that makes sense. Thankfully if I do end up having to do the up do that she wants she wants trials ran on her sister and I since we have so much hair.
I think if I keep my hair at its current length it will work better than how long it was when we got married and I was told no up do.
I changed my name
I'm no expert on hair styles, but wouldn't the same updo look different on each person just because the differences in each person's hair? I'd make a good solid effort to look for some type of updo that won't look strange on you before you go the route of chopping it all off.
Either way, I'd try to convince her that you just want to do what will look best that way she knows/thinks that you have her interests at heart. Maybe she'll lighten up a bit.
It won't look funny with everyone's hair up, everone's hair down, or with everyone's hair completely different. Honestly, no one is even going to notice. Actually, I take that back. I think it looks weird and funny when the bridesmaids are matchy-matchy down to their hairstyles and shoes.
I hope she ends up letting you all do what you're comfortable with! Especially because no one wants to look like a torpedo