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Needs ideas for romantic night in hotel

Hello Ladies!!!

BF and I are going to be going out of town on a business trip for his work. I am wanting to have one of the nights that we are there be romantic and all about him. He has been working a lot of overtime lately and would like to show him some fun! I need ideas as far as sexy things I could do, things I can buy, etc. Please help!!!

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Re: Needs ideas for romantic night in hotel

  • I just recently did this for my BFs birthday! We had what seemed like an eternal day at work on that Friday [I work double duty on Fridays, same boss different job. one from 9-4 & the other from 4-10. AND he coaches a flag football team.] I made a reservation at a local resturant, we ate, then went back to the hotel. Had some sexy fun, and got a great nights sleep! I was planning on doing full on lingerie, but ended up in a matching bra & panties and he loved it! While I was planning everything I asked him for resturant suggestions and a solid color and a pattern he would like to see me in. (he picked hot pink & leopard print). 

    Since your hotel is already taken care of, the resturant and lingerie are pretty much all you need. Since I don't get to dress up and look nice very often it was fun to be able to do that for him (:

    It was also nice that we didn't have to set any alarms and were able to sleep in, cuddle (& I'll admit it! More sexy fun.)  & take our time getting reading for the day/ rest of the weekend. Were both full time college students and both work alot. After that night we agreed that we're going to take a night/weekend for us every few months to be able to do what we want and enjoy each other (:

    SORRY ITS LONG! lol. I hope this helped (:

    Oh, and if you're looking for lube, toys, etc. My sister recommended Booty Parlor, or The VS line of stuff. 

  • Being a guy and seeing that you want to make it all about him, I have a few suggestions. 

    Like someone else already stated,  wear something simple. or don't wear anything.  Keep it minimal like a simple thong (personal fav) and a 1/2 cup bra.  Or, don't take any underwear at all!!  Nothing under anything the entire time you are gone from your house.  Get dressed where he can't see what you are wearing.  Wear a nice formfitting dress (tight) with nothing underneath.  Once you are in the car and on your way to the airport, ask him if he noticed that you are sans undies and then tell him that you didn't pack any either!!  When ever you are alone in your hotel room, be naked.  Sleep naked, watch TV naked, everything.  Take tight clothing to wear out or something sexy. All without undies!!  He will love it!

    If you visit the hotel pool, take a small bikini to show off for him.  If you don't have one, order one if you have time before you leave.  Wear the tiny bikini like a thong or rio back bottom to the pool.   He will love it.

    Sex wise, guys love oral!!  Maybe give him a bj before you leave for the airport.  Then once you check in, another one in your room before you go to dinner.  A great position to try is in the shower.  Ask to a handicapped room that has a hand held shower head.  Get into the shower, have him hike up a leg and rest his foot on something to give you more room for the shower head.  Hold the shower head under his scrotum and give him a bj like this.  He will love the feeling of the water on his boys and with the combination of your warm mouth, he will be climaxing very quickly!!

    After dinner, use your body to give him a massage.  Take along with you a cheap shower curtain.  Put in on the floor.  Have him lie on his belly and use lots of baby oil on him and you.  Then, l on top of him and use your body to massage his.  Slide up and down him slowly, using your hands too, but mostly your breasts and legs and pubic area.  Have him turn over, apply more oil to his front, and repeat.  End with you stradling his penis and riding him to climax.  If you are into it, spin around into a 69 and clean each other up with your mouths!!!

     

    Just a few suggestions from a guy's point of view.  Trust me, if its going to be all about him, the bjs and the no undies will be just fine.

     Let us know how it went!

     

    I'll try anything once. Yes, anything, well almost!! :)
  • I definitely agree with the naked thing! We did that & it help me relax (weird, but true) I never realized that clothes restrict my body like shoes restrict my feet (I HATE shoes, I am normally either barefoot or wearing flip-flops.) but now I can assure you that my BF & I's alone time will consist of a lot more nakedness. We are both a little body conscious at the moment and walking around naked helped me to be more comfortable around him in my birthday suit. We don't live together, so we don't get to walk around naked all the time (he lives with his parents, I live with my grandmother- hey were 20, give us a break.)
  •    Showup naked. Want to make it extra special? Bring beer.
  • That sounds absolutely perfect for my husband!!!  I love getting ideas on how to romance my husband from men, only they know what they really want!! Thanks for sharing!!
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