Starting Over
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so he officially moved out today
Although I know I made the right decision for myself and my children (including one on the way), I still feel so sad and have been crying all day. Please tell me this gets better with time.
Re: so he officially moved out today
Good for you for taking the first steps!
Just remember to document everything that he does that he shouldn't be. (ie emails, texts and such from him, threatening or not)
It takes a strong person to leave especially while pregnant!
This will happen again and again. Emotions ebb and flow; one day you'll be on top of the world and the next you'll want to crawl into a hole and never come out. This is normal and part of the process. Don't fight it and in time the bad days lessen. A few of the women on here (achase and amandajordan I think) were pregnant when doing through breakup/divorce. They can provide a good perspective for you when they're on. Stay here and you'll get a lot of helpful support. This board saved me.