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I met the XW/BM
I met F's XW (who is also the BM of his daughter, J) this weekend. She had said a few sketchy things to him in the run up to this meeting, so I was a little concerned with how things would turn out. F and his XW have agreed to introduce any SO to each other if they will be spending time with J. I'm the first person that has been introduced on either side, so this was new to them too.
The meeting was extremely anti-climactic (which is a relief). She was very nice, she basically just said that she didn't want any drama, but she wanted to meet me if I was going to end up spending a lot of time with her daughter.
Anyway, the meeting went well, everyone got along, and we parted ways about 45 minutes later. I really don't think it could have gone much better than it did.
Re: I met the XW/BM
I think it's bio mom.
Yes, I meant bio mom.
Ah, gotcha! Makes more sense. Did he have another woman who was a step mom or something?
No, he just has the ex-wife.
They have been divorced/separated for about a year and a half. I am the first woman that he's introduced to his ex-wife and daughter. His ex-wife has never introduced him to anyone she's seriously dating, so this was a first for both of them. We've been dating a little over 5 months.