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TIP on BOTB

 OP is going through a divorce.  Her BF of 3 months moved in with his child's mother.  But they aren't sleeping together.  He just won't let her meet his child.  Oh and she's jealous of his toddler.

http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/61425718.aspx

Old TIP post: http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/59197983.aspx

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Re: TIP on BOTB

  • soo....shes been with a guy for 4 months and thinks hes the one? She hasnt even met the (hopefully) most important person in this dudes life.

     I cant even put together a response to this I'm so WTF at this situation.

    If you knew better, you'd do better.
  • Ugh, I should have known this flaming bag of crazy wouldn't listen to us.
  • Oh wow I remember this chick.  I didn't even respond because I assumed she was either MUD or the answer was so obvious that she'd break up with the guy.

    WTF.

  • I like that the boyfriend sleeping with his kid's mom would be a deal-breaker, but living with her is totally fine. You know, in crazyville.

    I don't know why, after only 4 months of being with someone, you would put up with that level of BS. And to be jealous of a kid?  My head hurts. 

    PS - he's SO sleeping with the baby mama. 

  • I am wondering how a woman with this little sense got through the screening to be a foster parent.
  • That chick is bat-sh!t crazy. I love that she says things like " without jumping in too fast, I'll say I think I may end up with him-- you know, forever... :)" and "I was totally ok with all of this for a long time." You've been dating him since SEPTEMBER. In what world is 3-4 months a "long time?"

    I also don't really think your relationship can be that strong when he's living with another woman he was once banging. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned that way though.

    Anyone else think that the "crazy ex" is actually his current girlfriend? If OP isn't allowed to meet the kid, I'm guessing she hasn't actually been to their house to see these separate bedrooms and hasn't talked to or been introduced to the ex as the new GF either.

     

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  • imageDaringMiss:
    I am wondering how a woman with this little sense got through the screening to be a foster parent.

    Yup. All that CPS screaming gets kids in homes like this.

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  • imagekmount:

    Anyone with step kids who wants their own so badly... and can relate?  

    Referring to that poor child as her step kid is enough to make my head explode.

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  • This dude certainly has a type: BSC.
    This is my siggy.
  • I recognize the crazy eyes.

    fiizzlee = vag ** fiizzle = peen ** Babies shouldn't be born wit thangs ** **They're called first luddz fo' a reason -- mo' is supposed ta come after. Yo Ass don't git a medal fo' marryin yo' prom date. Unless yo ass is imoan. I aint talkin' bout chicken n' gravy biatch. Then yo ass git a all-expenses paid cruise ta tha Mediterranean n' yo ass git ta hook up Jared Padalecki on tha flight over while bustin yo' jammies. But still no medal.
  • imageMrsOjoButtons:
    imagekmount:

    Anyone with step kids who wants their own so badly... and can relate?  

    Referring to that poor child as her step kid is enough to make my head explode.

    Yes BSC this child's mom may be, but good for her not letting her toddler meet crazy eyes.
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