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My mom is so fvcked up
Granny is not doing good, mom is trying to jockey for who gets what, is talking to her about it, and it makes me sick. She is so goddam greedy, it infuriates me. We moved her wedding ring to my cousins safe, and now she is accusing their family of stealing it, ect.....she is causing all this drama and I want to punch her. So, I'm keeping grannies ring in my safe, and my mom can kiss my ass. I told her that I wasn't going to listen to her stupid conspiracy theories, and that if she thinks people are taking things, then she can accuse me of it too, because I have keys to her place and take her debit card and do her shopping for her. MOm took her suitcase with her and is staying in grannies hospital room. Good, peace you you crazy paranoid biitchh.
Ugh, I'm about to lose my shitt. I guess in times like this, true colors show of people, and I really wanted to think my mom was different, but I'm not surprised.
Re: My mom is so fvcked up
Granny would be sick if she knew what drama my mom was causing.
Its a situation exactly like this that tore my dad's side of the family apart when my great-grandma died. It was seriously ridiculous. I was young and had a hard time mourning my great grandma, because I was so caught up in the drama of who was getting what. Its like as soon as she was in the ground *** hit the fan.
Now the same thing is happening with one of my grandmas, and once again it is dividing the family. Some people came out with WAY more than others, and a few got absolutely nothing.
It is so sad that people get so caught up in it, that they don't cherish the time they have left with loved ones.
Don't let it ruin this time with your granny. F everyone else.
I know, that's what I keep thinking, you assholes, she's suffering and all you can think of is where is her jewelry? Disgusting.
You know what I'm going to do, when she dies, I'm just going to make sure she's buried with her rings, so no one gets them. It will teach everyone a lesson. it.
Its just stuff! It's just things, isn't being a family more important?gawd! What is wrong with people! Grannies possessions aren't a big grab bag! . I don't care if get nothing, I know I am trying to do the right thing by her. I'm at peace with that.
When I talk to her, we chat about memories, god, life, ect.....not about what is supposed to happen after she dies. I know my mom will try to tell us that granny said this or that, and I am just going to hold my ground and tell her that's not what she wants to do, I've spent more time with her than you, and that's not what she has told me.
Granny pretty much raised me, so, I can totally see this as a huge reason for me to never talk to my mom again, if she continues with this bullshitt. It's sad, but I am losing what little respect I had for her.
People suck.
I am so sorry you are having to deal with your mom and trying to be there for your granny.
I think our moms are related. She's already told me that I should fight for what's mine when my grandpa passes. No thanks. I'll let my WT family fight over his stuff. Our memories, stories and pictures are more important anyway.
BTW- I get the grandma more of a mom than your mom thing. It was that way in my life also. I miss my grandma so so much and am so glad she got to see make a good life. I bet your granny is so proud of you.
This. Please don't let these be the memories you have of your gran's passing. It's a hard enough time to lose a family member let alone lose others due to their actions. I am sorry you are dealing with this. Hugs for being so strong.