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I really hate it when people tell me to "Smile!"

Don't tell me to smile because you think I need to. I'm sick. I feel like total sh!t, and I don't want to be at work, but I have to because my boss is on vacation.

Just because I don't have a cheesy grin plastered on my face 24/7 doesn't mean I'm not a happy person.

I used to have strangers say that to me, but I guess I now give off a "don't talk to me" sort of vibe, because that hasn't happened in years.

I just dont understand what compels people to say that to others. You don't know what they're thinking, or what's going on with them. It just rubs me the wrong way, I guess.

Re: I really hate it when people tell me to "Smile!"

  • Ugh, feel better soon! I hate it when people tell you to smile, or tell you "you look awful" or something. They don't know what's going on with you, they should just mind their own business!
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  • ITA.

    So... if I smile, even though I'm not feeling it, is that to make me feel better?  Or to make you feel better, like you were that last catalyst I needed to illicit a ***-eating grin on my face?

    Thought so.

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  • Ugh, feel better. I just got over a horrible cold. And it annoys me when people tell me to smile, sick or not. If I wanted to smile I would smile... stfu. 
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  • I would guess it's a kinder way to say, "You look like a grumpy bastard today," don't you think?  Would you prefer they just say that rather than "Smile!"  That would make for some interesting work conversations.  Wink
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  • I couldn't agree more.  Mind your own business people.   How do you know my dog didn't just die or that I didn't just lose a job?   Most people I know who run around with a stupid grin on their face 24/7 need to be medicated so excuse me if I'm a normal person who might just happen to be in a "no reason to be jumping out of my skin with excitement" kind of mood.

    One of these days when some idiot says that to me, randomly and out of the blue, without knowing anything about me, I'm going to tell them I just got diagnosed with a fatal flesh eating virus or something just to watch their reaction.

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