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s/o Christmas desserts but meal related

Does anyone sit down to a formal Christmas dinner?  I was having this conversation with a coworker and they sit down to a formal dinner each year late in the afternoon and she couldn't believe my family has never done this.  My mom normally just puts out a variety of easy-to-eat stuff and we fix plates throughout the afternoon. 
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Re: s/o Christmas desserts but meal related

  • They do this at my grandmother's house. Homemade ravioli's and meatballs.
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  • We used to always have a formal dinner but the past few years we've scaled back to apps and desserts. Being as my parents are divorced and I have to see the IL's as well, we've had to cut back on the time spent with everyone. The amount of people who come to our extended family get together has shrunken considerably over the years so my Mom and Aunt refuse to do a giant dinner for so few people.
  • Yes we do. Growing up we usually would do a formal dinner either on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day, but not both. Now that DH and I are married, we go to my parents' house for a sit-down dinner on the Eve and to DH's parents' house for a sit-down dinner on the Day.

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  • We used to, but my Mom took over hosting Christmas breakfast (now brunch) from my grandparents, and she doesn't want to have to cook/coordinate two huge meals in one day. Brunch is when the extended family gathers, and by dinner, there's only a few of us left. This year Mom's just throwing a lasagna in for anyone who's still hanging out. DH wanted me to do a formal dinner at home, but I think I'm going to bump it to the following weekend so that I can just chill on Christmas at my Mom's.
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  • We have a formal dinner on Christmas Eve with my mom's side...try cramming 20 or so people together in a small area to eat.   We also have a formal dinner on Christmas Day at my parents' house but DH and I (along with my sister) still eat at the kid's table, ha.  It's my favorite meal all year though!
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  • hmmm

    We've never done a formal meal on Christmas Eve - but we've never had extended family around to celebrate with either - its always just been me, my sister and parents.  Christmas Eve was always a clusterfuck of last minute wrapping, grocery shopping, shopping, etc. 

    We have always had a fancy meal on Christmas Day - normally a late afternoon Thanksgiving type meal - roast turkey, mashed potatoes, etc.  My MIL does the same meal but hers is earlier - around 12 or 1 pm

    This year, we are hosting Xmas day and I think we'll do an informal meal and then the day after Christmas, we're inviting ILs over and we'll do brunch then.

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  • Yes, every year, always have. Typically its tenderloin but this year its crown roast of pork or however that's called lol.  Christmas dinner is a big deal in my family.
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  • Yes we do.  Luckily we can combine families for Christmas dinner so we're all together.  Even growing up we had a formal Christmas dinner.
  • I never did until I met DH and started spending Christmas Day with his family. His mom does sit-down brunch and sit-down dinner.

    We have a very large crowd at my parents on Christmas Eve so we do a buffet-type meal.

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  • A LONGGGG time ago we did and at DH's parents house we used to.  Now it's like a grab a plate sit in the living room and watch the kids open gifts kind of meal.  Which is fine with me, I am that person who likes to make multiple trips to the food table :)
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  • imagetspring82:
    Does anyone sit down to a formal Christmas dinner?  I was having this conversation with a coworker and they sit down to a formal dinner each year late in the afternoon and she couldn't believe my family has never done this.  My mom normally just puts out a variety of easy-to-eat stuff and we fix plates throughout the afternoon. 

    Wow so many of you or your DHs families do- one more reason my family is weird!  Maybe because growing up there were so many of us that my mom never did it for space reasons...I'll have to ask!

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  • imagetspring82:

    imagetspring82:
    Does anyone sit down to a formal Christmas dinner?  I was having this conversation with a coworker and they sit down to a formal dinner each year late in the afternoon and she couldn't believe my family has never done this.  My mom normally just puts out a variety of easy-to-eat stuff and we fix plates throughout the afternoon. 

    Wow so many of you or your DHs families do- one more reason my family is weird!  Maybe because growing up there were so many of us that my mom never did it for space reasons...I'll have to ask!

    LOL maybe. My mom takes christmas meals seriously - we always had big formal breakfast at the DR table with her holiday china and then a big christmas dinner. Her table sat 18 people though so we could squeeze a lot of people there and then at the kitchen table if necessary.

     

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  • We always have a formal dinner on Christmas afternoon. I have a small family, so it's easy to do. This year I am planning on doing some fun breakfast stuff as well. We will celebrate with H's family in Christmas eve, so it's nice to dedicate a day to each. We also don't have any little kids, so it's easier to have a dinner like that. I'm sure things will adjust once we add little ones into the mix.
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  • Yep, we do....  My family does formal dinner on Christmas eve and the IL's get brunch/christmas dinner on christmas.
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  • My mom's always done brunch on Christmas morning w/ egg casserole and "all the fixins."  My ILs do a formal sit-down dinner on Christmas evening w/ ham, scalloped potatoes, etc.
  • We have done formal dinners in Christmas Eve all my life (growing up in Germany, the 24th is the "big" day for us)

    Over the past few years I have been hosting x-mas eve parties at my house and since we usually have a lot of people come, too many to fit on the table, I now set up a buffet and people can sit or stand where they want.

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  • It's all about the Christmas Breakfast in our family.  The rest of the day we usually just graze.  However, this year DH decided to do a big dinner.  He is making a beef tenderloin.
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  • We did growing up. We had a traditional Swedish xmas eve dinner at my grandmother's. Then, on xmas day after we opened presents, we would go to my aunt's house in the late afternoon for a sit-down dinner.
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  • imagechrissyp18:
    We have a formal dinner on Christmas Eve with my mom's side...try cramming 20 or so people together in a small area to eat.   We also have a formal dinner on Christmas Day at my parents' house but DH and I (along with my sister) still eat at the kid's table, ha.  It's my favorite meal all year though!

    We are still at the kids table too!  We go to my Aunt's house on Xmas around 2:00 p.m. for 4:00 p.m dinner.  We all sit down to eat but it's buffet style.  Dessert follows a bit later after presents.

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