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Anal
I have never done this position before and am really wanting to try with bf. Is there anything I should know, how do I prepare, what should I use? HELP!
Mommy to Delainey
Re: Anal
http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/30751312/ShowThread.aspx
you have no idea the sh!t I went through to find this. (pun intended)
A couple things that were not mentioned in the thread that was linked by PP (although it has lots of really good stuff!)
1. Butt plugs. Seriously. Start small, move to medium... unless your BF is gigantic you won't need the large though. It'll help stretch you out and get used to the idea and also give you an idea of how slowly things are going to have to go at first.
2. It's usually easiest if you're the one in charge of penetration. Position doesn't matter as much as who has control of how fast penetration is happening. If you're in control, you'll feel better emotionally and you can also make sure that it's not happening too fast. It's very important that he be patient and not try to push things. It will hurt / feel uncomfortable at first, even if you've been preparing with the plugs, but that WILL go away within the first minute or two as long as you aren't pushed past the point of minor hurt/stretching into pain.
Good luck!
Mommy loves you Eevee!
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Relax! Tell him to relax too. He may get excited and act like a jackhammer but that will not be good for you! Use something to numb the area (Pure Romance has Booty Eaze) **I am a consultant if you have any specific questions about it)
Be gentle. If it hurts, STOP!
the obvious aforementioned advice lube,position,control but also
1) use a condom
2) TAKE A *** FIRST seriously it is gross to see him pull out and have crap on the condom frankly i would advise taking some phsilium fiber (Metamucil or target brand) for a few days before so that you know that you are good and cleaned out
3) do not use any form of numbing products, if you are hurting your body you need to know that you are hurting yourself
4) pee after you have any sex of any kind but particularly anal because you are spreading that bacteria around your genitals and if any gets in your urethra it could cause a UTI so always pee after sex to flush any unwanted stuff out