November 2010 Weddings
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Guys, seriously. (sex poll)
This is painfully slow. What happened? We were super busy on TK!
Let's liven this up a little.
How often do you and H do it? More/less frequently then before you were married?
Craziest place you've had sex?
Favorite position?
Do you use any, uh, toys? (I may or may not be looking for suggestions.)
Any funny sex stories to share?
Re: Guys, seriously. (sex poll)
How often do you and H do it? More/less frequently then before you were married? Not often. He's working two jobs and is generally exhausted. Maybe once every two weeks.
Craziest place you've had sex? I can't think of any truly crazy places.
Favorite position? Missionary. God, we are boring. He'd probably say something different though.
Do you use any, uh, toys? (I may or may not be looking for suggestions.) Nope.
Any funny sex stories to share? One time we were trying to have sex and he looked up and realized his cat was sitting next to us, just staring. He wouldn't go away. Cat pervert.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
How often do you and H do it? More/less frequently then before you were married?
ummm try to a couple times a week but it doesnt always work with work schedules, ild say about the same amount as before though
Craziest place you've had sex?
the downstairs of my parents house on the floor while they were upstairs..we were young n daring
Favorite position?
i like em all
Do you use any, uh, toys? (I may or may not be looking for suggestions.)
nope
Any funny sex stories to share?
umm sorry not really
How often do you and H do it? More/less frequently then before you were married? We went through a supreme dry spell the first 6 months (IUD issues). That sucked. But now we're back on a 1-2 times/week average. It's probably a little more often than when we were engaged. (less than when we first started dating though.)
Craziest place you've had sex? Nothing too crazy. Apartments when roommates have been home I guess.
Favorite position? honestly? missionary. or spooning.
Do you use any, uh, toys? (I may or may not be looking for suggestions.) Nope.
Any funny sex stories to share? We've had the dogs walk in on us. Or they'll sit outside the door and whine and howl. It's a little ridiculous. haEat.Drink.BeMarried. Blog.
How often do you and H do it? More/less frequently then before you were married? 1-2 times a week on average. I don't think being married really made a difference because we already lived together for a few years beforehand, but I would definitely say less frequently than when we first met. Full time work and school (grad school for me) don't help.
Craziest place you've had sex? Maybe when I got back from a five week trip to Italy and we pulled over to a vacant parking lot on the way home? We almost had sex in the park late at night when we first started dating.
Favorite position? It's hard to say. We usually try several per session. I prefer him to start on top, then I usually come on top during the middle, and he usually finishes behind me.
Do you use any, uh, toys? (I may or may not be looking for suggestions.) Yes... pretty often. If you are curious and want to know what we like, I can give suggestions.
Any funny sex stories to share? We almost always have our dog or cats around so we've learned not to pay attention although sometimes we laugh if there is a particularly intense stare. There is usually always something to crack up about when it comes to sex, so I'm not sure if we have a particularly funny story.How often do you and H do it? More/less frequently then before you were married? A few times a week, just like pp's it depends on schedules and how tired we are. We didn't have sex before we were married, so the flood gates opened up at the beginning
Craziest place you've had sex? No place crazy. Boring, I know.
Favorite position? Right now I guess it's a version of the missionary. He stands up while I'm at the edge of the bed (so as not to smush my belly).
Do you use any, uh, toys? (I may or may not be looking for suggestions.) We tried handcuffs once (does that count?) But they were too small for his wrists and left bruises on mine. Don't think we'll use them again because I don't want people to think that he's beating me or something.
Any funny sex stories to share? I am notoriously accident prone, it's seriously puzzling. Our wedding night was our first time and it was really special...until I tried to move and ended up kicking him right in his...you know. It wasn't a hard kick, but I was still mortified. He laughed it off. He says he doesn't remember it now, but I'm pretty sure he's just being nice about it.
How often do you and H do it? More/less frequently then before you were married?
Right after we got married -- 1-2 times a week, which is more than when we were dating. In the past 8 months since I've been knocked up -- a total of about 7 times.
Craziest place you've had sex?
My parents' house with them in the next room.
Favorite position?
Missionary, or me on top
Do you use any, uh, toys?
Nope, sorry. DH keeps saying he's gonna buy me one though. It just doesn't appeal to me.
Any funny sex stories to share?
DH tried to shoo the cat while we were in the middle and when I was close. Super distracting ... I ended up saying, "Just let her watch. It's a freakin' CAT!"
How often do you and H do it? More/less frequently then before you were married?
It varies. We have gotten sidelined a few time with this IF stuff, so actual sex has been a no-go at different times. But typically we were a few times a week couple. Now its still a few times a week, but not always actual sex.
Craziest place you've had sex?
Um, lol. DJ booth, church parking lot, in 2 feet of snow, pool.
Favorite position?
Nunya business
Do you use any, uh, toys? (I may or may not be looking for suggestions.)
Nunya business
Any funny sex stories to share?
An ex and I went to philly for work and got wasted (we helped open a bar) and we were a little wild in the hotel room. We lost track of the edge of the bed and fell off. I smashed my head off the end table and he broke his arm. Except we were too wasted to realize it until we were done.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
How often do you and H do it? More/less frequently then before you were married? Not often enough - about twice a month. I'm very shy, and he's not much of an initiator, so we do it less than we'd both like. It's about the same as before.
Craziest place you've had sex? a beach
Favorite position? him on top, feet up. and spooning lately.
Do you use any, uh, toys? (I may or may not be looking for suggestions.) have before, kind of so-so opinion of them
Any funny sex stories to share? oh, lots... but none that I really want online