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Stupid Question: I should know how to do this
I was just wondering if anyone had advice on how to get a smooth ponytail with my hair. Everytime I make a ponytail its never smooth like every other person's hair I see. I always have the lines where the brush brissels went through to pull my hair back. Also, I always have weird things going on the sides going on.
Is there a special brush people use? Just use your hands and avoid brushes for the line issue? Any advice? I would love a smooth pony tail with now lines and bumps showing..
I know I am 30 years old and should know how to put my hair in a pony tail by now.. 
~Cheryl and Frank~ 06/28/08
TTC since Sept 2009, 2 uterine septum surgeries (Jan and March 2011), 1 chemical pregnancy (4/11), 1 ectopic pregnancy (8/11), and missed m/c at 11w5d (3/12) Failed IVF #1 (July 2012) FET #1 October/November 2012 BFP, m/c at 5 3/7 February - operative hysteroscopy
Late April/May FET #2
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Re: Stupid Question: I should know how to do this
you want the actual pony smooth and straight or the hair on your head? If the pony, the only real way (for me) is to blow-dry. Otherwise my pony is always a little curly.
If you're talking hair on your head - blow drying is an option. In the summers when I want it slick and not to come out I actually use product and a very very fine tooth comb and do it that way. Then spray it.
In the winter I just use a brush. To make it the best looking I usually part my hair instead of just going it straight back.
I don't really have any advice either. I have curly hair, so my ponytails are never very smooth. The only time that happens is if I straighten my hair first or put my hair up while it's still wet from the shower.
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TTC since Sept 2009, 2 uterine septum surgeries (Jan and March 2011), 1 chemical pregnancy (4/11), 1 ectopic pregnancy (8/11), and missed m/c at 11w5d (3/12)
Failed IVF #1 (July 2012)
FET #1 October/November 2012 BFP, m/c at 5 3/7
February - operative hysteroscopy
Late April/May FET #2
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I think my hair is sort of trainable... you know, like when you first change your part to a new spot it wants to go back there until you train it to lay the new way?
If I don't wear pony tails for a few days my hair is bumpy. But once I wear them my hair lays smoother.
Also, if I don't wash my hair in the morning they are always bumpy. If I wash my hair, it lays smoother. My hair is naturally curly. Doesn't matter if I dry it or not, it will still lay smooth if I wash it then pull it up with no product in it.
Normally, because I'm short on time to get ready with Landon around now, I just blow dry the roots, let it air dry until I walk out the door, then pull it up and it's smooth.
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