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Asking too much?

While I was out shopping, I ran into a small whimsical gift that reminded me of my one friend (who was also one of my BM)   She lives out of town, so I bought it and mailed it to her without telling her. I thought she would like the surprise since I usually don't send her anything. That was two weeks ago. I haven't heard anything from her. No email or text to acknowledge she got it or to thank me. Is this too much to expect?  I didn't buy it for a thank you, but I would at least like to know she got it. 
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Re: Asking too much?

  • No, it's not. She should have at least sent you a text or a fb comment or something. Some people are just like that :-/

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  • No, not too much to ask. She should have let you know that she recieved it. Maybe she just got wrapped up with other holiday things. I know that happends to me sometimes. I'll think "oh I need to call them" but its 11pm and don't remember until I'm sitting in class or another time when I can't call.
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  • No, if I was your friend I would have let you know whether I got it or not.  You can always call her and ask if she received the gift.  As pps said, she could be really super busy and forgot or could be waiting to open the gift at Christmas.
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  • I agree with PP - she may have seen that it was from you and thought the would just open it on Christmas :)
  • I'd text or something chill like that to see that the package arrived safely.

    Not to freak you out, but we had wedding gifts stolen from out of town guests who mailed them to us even though they couldn't attend, and we would never have known if a bizarre twist of fate had not led us to evidence!!! ha

    (Basically a kid found some mail with our smashed Crate and Barrel boxes several miles from our place at the time, and brought the stuff to his mother, who tracked us down...)

    I'm sure your gift arrived, and I'm sure your friends forgot to call you.  But just to be thorough, and cuz I'm insane, I'd check. 

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