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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
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Confessions!
I'm so sick of being in the office alone while my bosses are in FL have a blast. There's little work to do and they're nonresponsive to me. I just put that I'm leaving at 4 on the calendar (I usually leave at 5:30). Just because we (me and bosses) are Jewish doesn't mean my ass isn't leaving at 4 for Christmas biatches! 
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Re: Confessions!
Hi. I'm here alone in my office too. *waves*
I plan to take a nap in my boss's empty office later this afternoon...
Had a little too much fun last night at the bars.
Kelly Monaghan's 5K - 5/15/11 - 3rd Place in AG
Walk the Talk 5K - 5/18/11 - 31:12 PR
Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/14/12 - 1st race of the year, 32:45
I had cookies for breakfast
I'm still in bed
I am half dreading going to my dads for Christmas because of his unsupportive comment about my relationship on Thanksgiving. I told him SO was coming to Christmas and he is trying to make me feel guilty by saying, "So we don't get daddy-daughter bonding time this year?" Even though his girlfriend will be staying the whole time anyway. The rest of my family is really excited I am bringing SO and I just wish my dad would get on the train.
I'm kind of cranky today. Hope the Christmas spirit starts kicking in soon!
I'm annoyed that it's the day before Christmas eve and L and I still don't know if his family is coming over to his place from Canada, or if we need to go over there. They seem to always make plans at the last minute, whereas I'm a planner. If we do go over to Canada, I'm going to have to find someone to watch my dog, so I need to know already!
I am so broke it's disgusting, but I feel bad about myself and I hate this time of year so I'm going after work to buy myself a $700 cell phone on my credit card, why? Because I deserve it to be happy, and if my life isn't making me happy then I will buy happiness and ruin my credit score because my STBXH already ruined it for me. Bada bing. Every credit card I own except for 3 store cards are maxed out. This should be fun paying it off for the next 20 years, but it's so worth it to feel happy for 25 minutes while I'm playing with my new phone. Ha.
I'm totally an idiot.
I have known for 12 days that my H has had an affair (which I think he has ended). All I have done about it is tell my friends (to develop a support system) and pick out new furniture from IKEA for when I move into my apartment at some point in the future. I have the name of a therapy practice and the name of an attorney and have called neither of them. I have not told my family or my H what I know. I feel totally stuck, in that I know once I set things in motion, there is no going back, and I just am not ready.
I know I at least have to call and make an appointment with a therapist to help me get unstuck.
It's okay to not be able to react immediately. You've started doing something, which is better than nothing. That first step of telling him is the biggest and most of us struggled with it. It took me about a month once I decided to really set it all in motion.
my confession:
Dinner is at my house tomorrow so we went grocery shopping today and put all the stuff in my fridge. My mom made a comment about how if I didn't have so much alcohol in my fridge i'd have more room. I wanted to tell her if I didn't have so much alcohol in my fridge I wouldn't be having a family dinner at my house.