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so annoyed. small doctor vent

I brought my test results (MRI, EEG, bloodwork) to a good frind of mine who used to be a medical technician. My neurologist was a ping pong ball when trying to give me the news. She went from describing my spinal chord as an electricl chord, to medication options, to lesions... I couldn't follow at all. All I caught was the "99% certain this is MS" from the appointment. So, my friend read everything and told me that there was absolutely conclusive in ANY of the tests to point out that I definitely have anything. I have no lesions (scar tissue caused by episodes) anywhere in my brain. There was a "slight" inclusion in the right hemisphere. And my right eye sustained some permanent damage from the optic neuritis I suffered from this summer. She told me, if anything, it's in the infancy of stages. It's possible that it could be something else mimicing MS, and urged me to see a specialist, and possibly another neurologist that I could speak to comprehensively.

I know I still have something going on, and I need to get everything checked out. I'm just annoyed as all *** that my doctor couldn't be more clear, or answer my questions. Another annoyance? Every visit I've had with her, she's taken a phone call in the exam room in the middle of my appointment... and now I haven't heard back from her in 2 days.

Re: so annoyed. small doctor vent

  • Forgot I can't drop the F bomb on the nest LOL.

    And, thank you all for listening to me vent, and cry. But, more importantly, thank you for your love and support.

  • Oh sweetie, you're going through a rough time. Vent and cry as much as you want.

    My advice would be to find another neurologist. It doesn't sound like you have a lot of faith in the one you have now. H's aunt has MS and I know she went to multiple doctors to get a more conclusive answer.

  • Thanks Klassy. I liked her so much in the initial visit. She was the first neurologist to listen to me, but now she can't talk to me. I've been dismissed by other doctors who have told me that I was either making it up, or had a nightmare that caused my seizures. I've been given various diagnosis without undergoing any tests. I was releived to find someone who took me seriously. Now I just have my doubts and want to hide under my blanket with my cat and just ignore it all. Ignorence was bliss.
  • i for one expect a doctor's full attention for the thirty seconds they breeze in and out (especially after waiting an hour on average to see them) so taking a phone call during an appointment would be no bueno for me. and now that you know she's "available" like that to other people it's that much more infuriating that she hasn't returned your call. unless she is the most highly respected neurologist in nyc and therefore you have to put up with some annoyances to be seen by the delicate genious (seinfeld anyone?) i say chuck her and find someone else. i am also very hopeful now that it's not MS and hope you can find out one way or another soon (the roller coaster has got to be killing you).
    Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
  • Taking one phone call I could understand. The first one she was being consulted from an ER about a stroke victim. I get that one. But the other 2, they baffle me. And annoy me. After the weekend, I'll be searching (again) for a new doctor.
  • Definitely seek out a second opinion.
  • Please seek as many opinions as it takes for you to feel comfortable. i'm sorry that you weren't happy at your appt. i know how frustrating this all can be. try to stay optimistic. hugs!

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