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BR: Cry it out suggestions

First off please excuse the horrible formatting. I'm posting from my phone. We are o day of the CIO method. So far both day has pretty much looked like this: naptime: lay her down at 12....she cries for 3ish hours without sleeping. Bedtime: bath, book, nursing/snuggles. Put I bed wide awake, she cries for 10 minutes and is out. I know the reason nighttime is goin so well is because she is exhausted from having no nap. Do I keep letting it go like this?? Will she eventually start napping again once she gets the self soothing under control?? On a funny note we are 4 for 4 on finding her pantsless.
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Re: BR: Cry it out suggestions

  • We never did CIO for naptime so I don't have any suggestions :(

    N needs his daytime nap or he is a bear so I always just do whatever it takes to get him to take a nap. Luckily, it only takes about 10 minutes (dark room, Scout on bedtime music, fan on, someone in the room with him) before he's out. 

    Can you maybe get her really used to bedtime first, then try the naptime CIO? GL... this parenting stuff is HARD! 

  • The only thing I can think of for naps is to maybe try putting her down at a different time....  maybe something earlier, before lunch?  Or something later in the day?  If she's overtired (or not tired enough), it could explain why she won't go down at 12.  Other than that, I have nothing :(  It's not easy at all.... hang in there!!!!  Too funny though that she keeps ending up pantless.

  • What were her naps like pre-CIO?  Any kind of schedule?

    I always found that the better they slept during the day, the better at night.  So, I think like Tiffany says maybe just do what you can to make sure she naps and then do CIO at night?  

    Hard to say though w/o knowing what she was like beforehand.

  • imageMrsL628:

    The only thing I can think of for naps is to maybe try putting her down at a different time....  maybe something earlier, before lunch?  Or something later in the day?  

    Today I put her down at 10.  She fell asleep sitting up for about 20 minutes.  Now we are an hour into her actual naptime.  Shes exhausted still (almost fell asleep cuddling with me) but she won't give in. 

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    What were her naps like pre-CIO?  Any kind of schedule?

    All of last week since I've been off work she napped everyday from 12-3ish.  When she is with my mom that is mostly her routine, although on some days she does nap for an hour in the early mornign and then have her naptime start at like 1ish. 

    I always found that the better they slept during the day, the better at night.  So, I think like Tiffany says maybe just do what you can to make sure she naps and then do CIO at night?  

    This is normally the case, but not since we have been CIO.  She has slept really well at night!  Night 1:  20 minutes of crying.  Woke up twice 10:30 and 2:30 and went back to sleep within 15 min.  Night 2:  10 minutes of crying.  Woke up once at 12:30 and went back to sleep after 10 minutes. So night time has been relatively uneventful.  But I don't know if it has anything to do with having no nap the past two days.  She has seriously spent 2 hours crying.  Then she is exhausted and clingy the rest of the night!

    Hard to say though w/o knowing what she was like beforehand.

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  • I obviously have no firsthand experience with this but what about trying Ferbering rather than true CIO?
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