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Update

We talked last night and I completely owned that I have a jealousy problem. I told him that the picture this girl tagged day before yesterday made me feel uncomfortable. He had been traveling the day she tagged it and he didn't see it until yesterday. Before I could give my reasonings of why it made me uncomfortable, he said that when he saw it yesterday that it made him uncomfortable for a few reasons: a.) He doesn't remember the photo b.) He was weirded out that she went back to september to tag a photo of them c.) She's crazy

He said that he doesn't know her very well just from when they would go out with their mutual friends. That everytime they went out she would get trashed  and have to be babysat in order to prevent being left. He also said that she's the kind of person who would stop at nothing to get a man she wants (this is probably what had my gut screaming something wasn't right with her) He said that she's out of her mind and not all quite there. She apparently start going after a few other guys in their group and he lost track of how many she's been with. He said he will block her and untag the photo which he did as soon as he went home. He's been very honest about everything up to this point so I have no reason not to believe him.

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  • See, this is why you should always trust your gut cuz even he thought it was weird. Glad your talk went well!
  • Great!  Good that your gut was right and amazing that Z felt the same way.  I'm glad he was able to tell you why it upset him before you needed to communicate the same.  I'm happy this turned out so well.
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  • I didn't respond to your OP, but this sounds like a great resolution. I'm glad that you trusted your gut and that you and Z are on the same page.
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  • It sounds like you have a great guy! I am glad you trusted your gut, and talked to him about it in a very mature way!!
  • What a great update! 
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  • I'm glad it turned out well!
  • imageUDscoobychick:
    I'm glad it turned out well!

    Me too. We also started in on the questions from the book PIP sent me and had a lot of fun with them. We can't wait to jump in to some more questions.

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  • Glad you are both on the same page!
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  • I'm glad you addressed it and that it turned out well!
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  • I posted saying that I basically didn't think anything good would come from confronting him. I'm glad I was wrong! He sounds like a really great guy.
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  • imageHoolyGo:
    I posted saying that I basically didn't think anything good would come from confronting him. I'm glad I was wrong! He sounds like a really great guy.

    Thank you! It means a lot for you to say this.

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