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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
In the early stages of dating
How often do/did you see each other? How often did you talk on the phone? How often did you text? Just wondering if there is some sort of average here. More curiosity than anything else.
Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/9/11 - 34:24 - 1st race evah!
Kelly Monaghan's 5K - 5/15/11 - 3rd Place in AG
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Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/14/12 - 1st race of the year, 32:45
Kelly Monaghan's 5K - 5/15/11 - 3rd Place in AG
Walk the Talk 5K - 5/18/11 - 31:12 PR
Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/14/12 - 1st race of the year, 32:45
Re: In the early stages of dating
In the early stages we texted/emailed or called every day, this started about 3 weeks into it. Sometimes we would talk for a while, some days it was one simple text message. We were getting to know each other, but we were not up each other's butts.
ETA: We saw each other 1 -2 times a week in the begining. We slowly added more time. After meeting and slowly spending more time with DD we now see each other 4-5 times a week.
When we first started dating, we saw each other nearly everyday, but he and I work out together. (At that time I didn't know we were dating) I just thought he wanted to be a work-out buddy. HA HA.
It is rare when we actually speak to one another on the phone, unless we are out of town and we want to say "good night."
I am a HUGE texter and I explained this when we first met, so we would text throughout the day.
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
we saw each other pretty much every day, we work next door to each other, and then we'd make it so we could see each other at least one day on the weekend, we emailed, texted, and talked on the phone daily.
we were exceptionally serious from the get go, we both knew it was the real thing and couldn't and still can't get enough of each other.
How often do/did you see each other? How often did you talk on the phone? How often did you text? Just wondering if there is some sort of average here. More curiosity than anything else.
We pretty much saw each other every day because my house is on his way home so even if he just stopped by for a half hour, we still saw each other.
We send maybe 5 texts in a day to each other.
Talked on the phone before bed most nights.
It's pretty similar to the same thing we do now.
In the very beginning we would only talk or text every couple of days. He was really busy at work and we both wanted to take things slowly. And we probably saw each other once or twice a week.
After 3 or so months we would talk on the phone either once a day or every other day and text a couple times throughout the day. He's not a big phone talker AT ALL (good in person, but not on the phone) and it's just easier for both of us to text. We'd see each other about 2-3 times a week.
About 4 or 5 months in we'd text pretty regulalry throughout the day and I started spending weekends at his place. Then probably 8 or so months in I started spending most nights of the week there (maybe 4-5 nights).
This was a slower progression for me than in past relationships, and I'm really glad we did things that way. There were times it drove me batty - I can be pretty impatient - but it let our relationship have space to grow.