Trouble in Paradise
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Post holiday sadness.
I know I am doing the right thing. I love STBX dearly but we are just not the same people we were 13 years ago and are not compatible now AT ALL.
However I am now incredibly sad. I miss him dearly even with everything that has been going on. I know it's only natural but now that he is sober it's more of the man I feel in love with 13 years ago and it's hard with all the holiday memories.
It doesn't help that our 5 year old asked me last night why we can't be a family anymore. We have been separated for almost 1.5 years......I thought by now it would be easier. 
Re: Post holiday sadness.
Well that should motivate you any time you start thinking about the good old days and why you can't be a family again. Remember that you are better off without him. I imagine it's hard to answer those questions, but no matter what they are asking now, one day they will realize the truth for themselves. Dad was a loser so mom left and she busted her butt to take care of us.
Try to think positive, and things will continue to get easier as time goes on.