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Got some odd information about my ex...

dmndsr4evadmndsr4eva member
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I just happened to run into an acquaintence of ours and we got to talking and she mentioned a lot of stuff about his past that I never knew.  It really does help in the moving on process to hear what a moron he really is.

I found out that he was engaged to another woman breifly that I never knew about.  So that makes 2 marriages and 2 additional engagements and one live in 3-4 year serious relationship and of course the current girl who he is already shacked up with.  For god's sake why didn't I see this pattern before.  He clearly cannot stick it out with anyone.  I would be amazed if this new girl lasts past what seems to be the 3 year curse.

Additionally she told me some really nutso stuff.  Apparently his second wife caught him having a orgy of sorts in their house with his cousin and his cousin's wife.  WTF.  I just don't even know what to think about it...I believe it because he is very into porn and that woman comes off as very sexually adventerous.  Especially when she drinks she is extremely flirtatous.

 

"How often does the other woman get a happy ending?" Chuck Bass, Gossip Girl
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Re: Got some odd information about my ex...

  • achase123achase123
    I know it's tempting but since you've already decided to move on I wouldn't engage in all sorts of conversations about your ex.  If someone starts telling you things like this, I would just say "you know, I really don't want to get into all that because I'm done things now and am a better place".  There's no need to keep dredging up his (obviously) sordid past.
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  • VaaaJeanaVaaaJeana

    Here's an idea.

    LET IT GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • MintChocoChipMintChocoChip
    imageVaaaJeana:

    Here's an idea.

    LET IT GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Agreed.  Or write a tell-all book and pass it out around town...

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  • DakotaDangerDogDakotaDangerDog
    imageVaaaJeana:

    Here's an idea.

    LET IT GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

     

    times like 8 THOUSAND.

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  • buttontobebuttontobe
    Forget it and move on. None of it matters anymore...that's why he's your X! Not thinking about him or any of his weird past endeavors will make you feel a whole lot better. 
    I wouldn't change a thing...it's all led me to you.
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  • WahooWahoo member
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    A) Let it go.

    B) You married someone with this past and/or someone who you didn't know that much about.  That says as much about you as it does about him.

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