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Update on friend's friend
So I texted him and asked him if he's spoken to her about the video yet. He called me back and apparently he has. He went over to her place and pretty much just came out with it. He said she was really upset and embarrassed, but told him she was glad he told her about it. He offered to be there with her while she called her ex, but she said she'd rather do it alone. He told her what website it is and all she said was "I can't believe he would do that to me!" So we're not 100% sure if she knew she was being filmed or not - and he felt too awkward to ask.
Re: Update on friend's friend
I will never understand why women agree to be filmed during sex when this kind of thing happens way too often.
Edit: I see you don't know for sure if she knew. I still stand by my statement but amend it to say if she didn't know he is a first class ass. It is good she now knows.
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I have no problem with my FI filming us during sex. I trust him with that, just like I trust him in other ways. Just because she [may have] agreed to be filmed does not mean that this is somehow her fault. No more than it's someones fault if a man cheats on her. It's just a case of misplaced trust.
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I didn't say it was her fault. I simply said I don't understand why women agree to be filmed during sex, but perhaps that is just because it isn't my thing so I just don't get it.