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Bummer, bummer, BUMMER!

So I've been separated for 7 months and I am just starting to enjoy looking at cute guys again. 

There was this guy who I never really noticed before. I was under the impression that he was staring at me a lot. You know, that feeling when you KNOW someone is into you. Anyway, he has been doing it for quite some time so there's no doubt about it and I was just getting into it. He is seriously hot and my type. I tried to chit-chat with him too but nothing more than a couple words. 

Well as of this week we are on different schedules so I only see him for like 10 sec/day and I just learned today that he is leaving my location. So I won't see him anymore. Why??? Am I cursed?

I never really talked to him enough to friend him on FB. That would be weird if I did, right? Oh well, I'll keep telling myself that he was just 20 and I am 29. But damn, a hot 20-year old guy was into me! BUMMER.

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Re: Bummer, bummer, BUMMER!

  • Ugh that sucks.  Where is he being transferred to?  There are a TON of stores, I'm sure plenty close by.
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  • Well turns out he quit. So he will still be in my town, not at work anymore. So no chance of seeing him anymore. 
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  • imageLandOBiscuit:
    Well turns out he quit. So he will still be in my town, not at work anymore. So no chance of seeing him anymore. 

    You should hang out with him outside of work!

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    imageLandOBiscuit:
    Well turns out he quit. So he will still be in my town, not at work anymore. So no chance of seeing him anymore. 

    You should hang out with him outside of work!

    I know but we barely talked to each other so I don't know how to do this without the whole thing being awkward, kwim? 

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  • imageMintChocoChip:

    imageLandOBiscuit:
    Well turns out he quit. So he will still be in my town, not at work anymore. So no chance of seeing him anymore. 

    You should hang out with him outside of work!

    This. Get it girl! 

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  • Ask one of his former co-workers if they know where is now working... then pop in that store ;)
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  • imageLandOBiscuit:
    imageMintChocoChip:

    imageLandOBiscuit:
    Well turns out he quit. So he will still be in my town, not at work anymore. So no chance of seeing him anymore. 

    You should hang out with him outside of work!

    I know but we barely talked to each other so I don't know how to do this without the whole thing being awkward, kwim? 

    Just ask him or find him on FB. If you said you're never going to see him again, what do you have to lose even if it is awkward?!

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  • I am normally a lurker, but coming out of hiding a lot today!  I had to chime in....woohoo for younger men! :) Sometimes they are more mature than older ones! ;)

    I think you HAVE to facebook friend him now, or you won't do it, and if you don't you'll always wonder....

    Good luck and keep us posted!

  • I already found him on FB. Pretty sure I am popping out in his "people you might know" lol.
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